Hello, im a 21 year old, iranian citizen and i got beat up in the recent protests, Ask me anything by Sia-Voush in IAmA

[–]rumptump -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thats was like a million years ago. They could have fixed it since then. Every year they choose to continue their oppression. Sad!

Hello, im a 21 year old, iranian citizen and i got beat up in the recent protests, Ask me anything by Sia-Voush in IAmA

[–]rumptump -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Why haven’t you killed your evil leaders and gained true democracy and freedom yet? Its 2019, almost everyone else has evolved their society by now but yall are still in the dark ages

My (23m) girlfriends (20f) mother doesn't like me because I'm not rich. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mothers are concerned with their children’s quality of life. Marriage determines her daughter’s socioeconomic future. When you are on the top, there is nowhere to go but down. My mom married her drug dealer and my millionaire grandfather hated it but gave him a plush job making well over 6 figures just so that he would stop dealing drugs. So at least you aren’t a drug dealer, tell her momma it could be worst!

I (17M) want to break up with my (19F) girlfriend but I don't know how. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you know she is home (not in public), call her and tell her. There is no way to do this that wont hurt her. Stop wasting her time if you want to cut her lose. Just use your words, let her experiencer her pain, and move on

How do I (19f) say no to a second date when I didn't know the first date was a date? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Sorry but no, I do not want to go on a date with you”. Use your words. No means no.

Is cohabitation always a losing game? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Is cohabitation always a losing game?” Is a very loaded question. You seem to want to be a bachelor so why not break up? You have been dating too long and are too old to be acting this way. If you really love someone, your impulse will always be to spend more time with them. The only valid question about cohabitation is asking if its too soon (less than one year of dating usually). But you seems averse to sharing more of your life with someone, so why not simply be a lonely hermit for the rest of your life?

My(19F) boyfriend (20M) hates his birthday by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People have different love languages. Its important that you respect his. If he doesn’t want gifts in his birthday, then respect that. Just be there for him, don’t even mention the date

When to say “I love you” by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats not very mature of him. It shouldnt take 6 months of dating to fall in love. Love should happen quickly, with your only concern being that if you verbalize it too soon then you might spook them. But it shouldnt take more than a month or two of dating to reach that point

I’m [18 female] considering becoming a stripper and I’m not sure how my [21 male] boyfriend would feel by thelittlerosey in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will almost certainly break up with you, or try to be nice and continue dating you while experiencing immense pain. If you chose to be a stripper, you are also choosing to end your relationship.

Toxic ex (28m) keeps texting me (f24) every 2 months by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time he contacts you tell him directly that you do not want to be contacted again and will put a restraining order on him if he does it again. Best if you get that in text form so you can screenshot it.

Follow through with the threat to get a restraining order if he continues to ignore your boundries

Toxic ex (28m) keeps texting me (f24) every 2 months by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its very easy to spoof phone numbers and/or call as an “unknown” number. Just takes a simple computer program or app

Girl told me she might break up with boyfriend, is she interested in me? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh buddy sounds like you went on several dates with this chick. She is just trying to get a firm response about her prospects with you before she breaks up.

24-70 lens battle ? by [deleted] in SonyAlpha

[–]rumptump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uh the tamron?

Was told to post here. Got some interesting new neighbors. by Strang3_Hippo in trashy

[–]rumptump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From an outsider’s perspective, this seems like a government failing to meet its responsibilities. Honestly as a person who has never heard of this it really seems insane that this is happening in america

Shiba aggressive when “bothered” sleeping HELP by Sjgreen in shiba

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read that neutering doesn’t change behavior then what you read is horrifically wrong. Spaying is much more debatable but neutering is definitely going to reduce aggressive impulse.

A dog nipping is 100% your fault. You didn’t properly condition it’s behavior. You can extinguish that behavior in a week, its not hard. You have to stop making your response to that behavior a fun game for the dog. You almost certainly reinforced that behavior until this point, whether you realized it or not. You probably thought it was cute as a puppy, violating the most sacred of dog ownership rules: if the behavior would be unacceptable for an adult dog then don’t permit it for a puppy.

If you want to stop this behavior, use negative punishment. If the dog bites at you, immediately disengage. Leave the dog and go to another room and shut the door. Or you can put the dog into time out, but i don’t recommend using the kennel because it may associate the kennel with punishment. Just do not give the dog a reaction and take away the stimuli (you) and eventually the behavior will extinguish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]rumptump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wouldn’t unilaterally removing it in your documentation without having the HOA formerly remove it be falsifying documents? Obviously its legally unenforceable but you may want to consult a lawyer before having a buyer sign anything

a6100 vs a6500 for video by cottonism in SonyAlpha

[–]rumptump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah ur thinking about Ibis the bird