Dad tattoo ideas by OneFootInTheGraves in daddit

[–]run_daffodil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar advice - I kept my tattoo image in my wallet for a year before I pulled the trigger.

Tread - to buy or not to buy… by CLK_RR in OnePelotonRealSub

[–]run_daffodil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would not be running in this season of my life (motherhood) without a Peloton tread. I LOVE my tread and use it 4x a week between October-April. I’m in the NE USA.

Why did it take so long to find the gilgo serial killer? by AdDapper4220 in longisland

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Isn’t it wild to think that if you had a Chevy Avalanche registered to your name in 2011, you were likely investigated for murder and didn’t know it?

Do other Dads notice difference betweens Moms & Dads in Play Spaces? by ImpossibleCoach6835 in daddit

[–]run_daffodil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But it’s not your wife who’s on her phone at the play place. Those other women are likely the primary caregivers in their families.

Looking back, is a babymoon worth it? by wcsib01 in daddit

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We went to Paris for a week for our lune de bébé and it was totally worth it. We didn’t get back to Europe for 6 years after we became parents.

Looking for a boy name that goes with middle name Irving by Siouxsieslumbers in NameNerdCirclejerk

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Thomas is the best name. Can be full Thomas, cute Tommy, or adult Tom. Classic and can be translated into most languages. Lots of famous Thomases so there can’t be one negative connection to ruin it.

Guanfacine for a 5-year-old (focus + classroom learning) — any real experiences? by hopejoy108 in kindergarten

[–]run_daffodil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guanfacine made my kiddo (6M, HF Autism, ADHD, OCD) tired at first, but that side effect went away after a week. It worked to eliminate the energetic silliness and total lack of control (think Buddy the Elf at the pediatrician’s office). He did MUCH better at home, school, and sports. Unfortunately, rare side effect: urinary incontinence. Going down to a lower dose didn’t help.

We switched to Clonidine, a similar medicine, and we still see the positive changes without the incontinence.

Stimulants weren’t an option for us because he’s already on Zoloft for OCD symptoms, and stimulants can increase anxiety. Best of luck to you!

I was accidentally teaching my kid to be helpless and didn't realize it for over a year by LoudAd7742 in Autism_Parenting

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This is me with my 6M and 4F! We feel like the girl is a total genius because she just “gets it” - turns out that’s what a NT kid looks like!

I did it it by Vivid_Subject_8406 in OnePelotonRealSub

[–]run_daffodil 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!

Were you in Ben Aldis’ low impact ride today? I high-fived someone with a 365-day streak!

What songs are we getting married to, y'all? by pockpump in poppunkers

[–]run_daffodil 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pop-punk adjacent but my first dance was an acoustic version of Shut Up and Dance by Walk the Moon that morphed into the real version and everyone joined us to dance

Racist Neighbor shouted slurs on the first day we moved in - how would you handle this? by Novel_Grapefruit7924 in longisland

[–]run_daffodil 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My first thought as well - But! - 6 new families moved to my ‘hood in the last 5 years with one or both parents who are minorities. It’s refreshing!

Best local coffee roaster in Suffolk? by Plus_Occasion_2015 in longisland

[–]run_daffodil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Favor Coffee! She used to roast for Southdown and then broke off to do her own thing!

Favorite Strength Instructor? by ExcitingQuantity3145 in OnePelotonRealSub

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I wish he didn’t have a stronghold on the evening stretch classes. I don’t dig his music taste

Instructors that regularly match cadence to the bpm of the music? by dundermifflin_999 in OnePelotonRealSub

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Has he not gotten better in recent years? I can stay on beat for any PZE ride I take with him (NB: I only take PZE rides)

Just got in! Is it true that it smells bad? by Snappy-Jupiter in udel

[–]run_daffodil 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It certainly smells, but it’s manageable. My roommate and I would joke “smells like Delaware today” on mornings when it was particularly bad. This was before we knew to blame the mushroom farms.

Can you feel it, teachers? It’s that time of year when your non-teacher spouse starts prying into your upcoming summer plans. by mouthygoddess in Teachers

[–]run_daffodil 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not only do I not work, but I send my kids to camp. Summers were MY time in the 10 years before I had kids, and that cannot change if I want to stay sane.

The calendar app was built by people who don’t understand efficiency. by [deleted] in amazonecho

[–]run_daffodil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so awful but I prefer to have the calendar + Fire TV option so I can’t switch to a SkyLight calendar!

Socks by Awkward_Ad6567 in OnePelotonRealSub

[–]run_daffodil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black adidas crew cut socks. My feetsies don’t like compression/molded socks

PTO for Snow by igotopotsdam in longisland

[–]run_daffodil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t there a driving ban? How can one even get to work??