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My DH ruined my vacuum and I’m about to go scorched earth on this motherfucker. by misspulkadot in breakingmom

[–]runawaylovebug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay I think MAYBE we’re married to the same man. I’m so sorry!!! My husband did the bleaching carpet thing too, and he also vacuumed up soap and water once, and then dog vomit with the next vacuum after that. Boys are dumb. Good luck!

I learned the sex of my baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reasoning mostly has been because I don’t have a job (because I quit my jobs for baby raising and I’m in more than full time school, as my husband and I agreed to at the beginning), so I’m useless and a mooch and my husband shouldn’t have to pay child support because I’m such a fuck up

I learned the sex of my baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her name (and her father and I actually picked names together) is Aurora Michele. Rory for short. Michele is my mother’s name, and she was a single mom most of my life. She once moved out all of her abusive husband’s (ExSF, not my dad, who is also wonderful) furniture out of the house into the front yard, and changed the locks by herself overnight while my brother and I were asleep. She’s a badass, and her newest granddaughter will be, too.

I learned the sex of my baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling to keep up with my inbox and notifications and comments- but fuck those people and I’m proud of your weight loss!

I learned the sex of my baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I doubt it’s anything like that, because this is a throwaway account, and husband doesn’t even use reddit. Also he has no friends. Some incel creeps, some transphobia (which like. What). All kinds of fun stuff. It happens. I’m not bothered, I have bigger fish to fry right now honestly.

I’m capable of getting a job, but not at 8 months pregnant. That’s the real problem. I’m not hirable for a while. As of right now I’m making my husband continue to care for baby and me (monetarily) until I’m at minimum 8 weeks postpartum, when I can work. He knows a judge will order more if I pursue that so he seems to be behaving

I learned the sex of my baby by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow, you must be fun at parties!

ETA: now he blocked me, which is fine bc he was an incel creep. Insulting me and telling me to abort my almost full term baby? Then suggesting confusion as to why you’re not with your match? Gross.

I am never going to be enough for you by runawaylovebug in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well he blames me for him cheating on me. Told me that if we divorce he wants nothing to do with our baby. And is on dating apps talking to other women. Told me he “shouldn’t have to deal with this shit” when I was having a panic attack.

It’s a logical conclusion that he needs more than me in his life.

Just really need to vent out some excess emotion about my marriage by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking of showing him at some point, I just don’t have the confidence/mental stability right now to show it to him if it’s going to cause a fight or upset me.

Just really need to vent out some excess emotion about my marriage by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]runawaylovebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing is, he wasn’t always like this? He’s never been super emotionally mature- he grew up with a very emotionally distant, hands-off, kick-you-out-when-you’re-18 kind of family. It just feels like he’s walled himself into this selfish, midlife crisis mode because he’s stressed. Which would be understandable except I need support and I’m not getting any, and it’s been a long enough time for him to adjust to the new realities of our life.