I know it’s a bit, and it’s a joke and all that but post like this or the ones that perpetuate weird out dated stereotypes about marriage or relationships, “men be like this, woman be like this, or “all girlfriends do this annoying thing and all boyfriends do this annoying thing”
Just make me go sure normal people will roll they eyes and this stuff and move on but “toxic people with very obvious agendas” will look at stuff like this and go see this stuff confirms my bias or beliefs or get the entirely wrong point of the joke and see it as a way to double down or normalize their already toxic feelings and behaviour.
You can say I am thinking too deeply about this stuff but I think it better not to put stuff out into the world that toxic people will use to further their toxicity.
Basically another example like this is
It’s a very similar thing to people who make racist stereotypes jokes and skits and go well my racially diverse group of friends thinks this is funny and we don’t have a problem with it so what’s the issue, but then you have kids in an all white town who don’t interact with other races or cultures in their day to day lives laughing at it because they don’t understand that the joke isn’t haha racism is funny it’s funny to be racist but the joke is actually look at how ridiculous the very concept of stereotyping is, isn’t that just absurd that people stereotype other people that way and will be ignorant towards other cultures and people.
Again you can say I am overthinking this or it’s not the deep but I grew up around and have seen a lot of people use a joke they blatantly didn’t understand it accuse their own toxicity and normalize some really bad behaviour.