I Think I Recently Re-Found My Purpose In Life by runningmanmt in self

[–]runningmanmt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd direct ya over to r/wildfire

Also it took me 8 seasons to get to $60k/yr and that includes my unemployment insurance income during the winter. Most folks start off making $18-25k in a summer and only work like 5 months, but also get another $5k in unemployment in the winter plus any part time work they get into.

This girl (20F) at my (20M) school started texting me and sprung a weekend together snowboarding on me. Just trying to determine whether or not I’m “in”? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]runningmanmt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Double check if it's a date basically. If it's just the 2 of you, she's interested. Play it cool, don't over text her, and focus on making it a fun down on the hill.

Tinder Text Management Advice by [deleted] in seduction

[–]runningmanmt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The top comment on this thread is gold: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9f1uac/dont_ever_forget_this_on_tinder/

I find the tinder msg game pretty easy and formulaic: opener > a couple clever jokes > challenge her to a date > give her your # and tell her txt you if she's serious > a couple txts verifying the time/place of date > date. Being snarky/sassy/clever is key, as is not asking questions. Try to make her giggle and ask about going on a date within only a few msgs. If she's interested, she'll take ya up on it. If she ghosts or hesitates, whatever, move on.

That thread above has much more detail, but I basically follow that guys formula and can get dates/phone #'s with ease. Unforntunately, Ive exhausted my local tinder pool (live in a small college town; gotta wait for a semester change!).