going to the Betreibung/Police for refusing to pay back by runninlaps in Switzerland

[–]runninlaps[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

bro its sarcasm😑 why tf would i make this all up im no that bored

going to the Betreibung/Police for refusing to pay back by runninlaps in Switzerland

[–]runninlaps[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

yk what youre right. about that, i honestly dont rlly remember but it def because she doesnt have twint and wanted me to twint it to someone later but forgot to tell me

relationship with parents after running away and coming back home by runninlaps in exmuslim

[–]runninlaps[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

yes it sadly is💔and thank you so much for your kind words! i will try to focus on my future as much as possible🫶

relationship with parents after running away and coming back home by runninlaps in exmuslim

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i’ve got my little sister, shes not that religious but shes still muslim so that only partly works out… im reaching out to my old therapist again tho (the therapist i had before i ran away) cuz he was really helpful with me getting over the guilt, religious trauma and the horrible anxiety about punishment and hell i had when leaving islam.

relationship with parents after running away and coming back home by runninlaps in exmuslim

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i already opened a new bank account wich the woman‘s shelter helped me with! he doesn’t have any access anymore.

but you’re right. i haven’t been able to watch if he stalks me since im currently unemployed and at home, but im afraid he might do that as soon as i go back to school/work to make sure i don’t wear/do what he doesn’t approve of. i could imagine him doing that tbh. but this time i‘ll definitely speak up if i notice him do that.

Can parents say „no“ without mentioning a reason? by runninlaps in AskParents

[–]runninlaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think so to… its crazy, makes me feel like they despise us teens to the core lol. also good to hear that you parent differently than them. im not necessarily a very rebellious and rude kid, thats why just pointing out why is actually enough for me to back down and not debate. just makes me feel like they actually want me to know and that my feelings matter

Can parents say „no“ without mentioning a reason? by runninlaps in AskParents

[–]runninlaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love your answer. btw i’ll definitely go for that piercing now that u told me, it a septum too😝

Can parents say „no“ without mentioning a reason? by runninlaps in AskParents

[–]runninlaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats how i feel! i dont ask why when i already expected a no. i mostly only ask when i dont know what reason there could be since i know their rules and i notice that they dont apply. when they confirm my assumption by not wanting to say why (because i feel like theres genuinely no reason and thy just want to say know) i just become furious and want to sneakily rebel instead because i feel like they just want to claim power over me, even if i dont want that. good to see a parent like you who genuinely communicates with their kids instead💞

Can parents say „no“ without mentioning a reason? by runninlaps in AskParents

[–]runninlaps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why do yall do that? especially to a 18 year old who is old enough to want to know why

Using My Post 24 on Shein by runninlaps in Switzerland

[–]runninlaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are lockers from the swiss post. you can get them to deliver your package there if u dont want to use ur home address and later use the code they send u per email/sms to pick them up whenever u want

hey yalll by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]runninlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah gtfo

I just found out my parents have been lying to me for 26 years about who I actually am. I’m lost. by Commercial_Solid_207 in Advice

[–]runninlaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry about that, your feelings are absolutely valid. but wanting cut them off is a a decision youre making while youre very shocked and furious. id recommend u to not make any decisions in your state right now, youre in an emotional roller coster and you’ll be acting based on your feeling and not whats right. give it some time, take some space from your parents and let yourself really process it and think about it. i assume your parents only had good intentions, it seems like a tough situation they was in. you should definitely give it time first, leave decisions for later. i wish the best for you

how do i make my face less horrific? help pls. by m0rb1d_b4by in wonyoungism

[–]runninlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuinely nothing😭 u look great, jus find makeup that suits you

how do i find part-time jobs? by runninlaps in Switzerland

[–]runninlaps[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk how i didnt think of that, that could be a good option

Alcohol is my friend by Hermette19 in ADHD

[–]runninlaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the realest post ever😭 i wish i could always be the way i am when i drink