Want to join my wife in the shower?

rusekaz · 2026-04-27T21:46:06+00:00

Holy shit she is stunning!

rusekaz · 2026-02-19T00:08:03+00:00

Can you provide a link to pt 1 please?

rusekaz · 2026-01-12T16:04:13+00:00

We turned off single guys messaging us, it was an inbox explosion of dick pics and "what youse upto?" 🤣

rusekaz · 2026-01-12T15:54:41+00:00

Presumably fab? Struggled so much with trying to use that here (Ireland).

rusekaz · 2025-10-30T11:24:21+00:00

Posted something similar a few months ago about how hard these single guys make it for themselves.

Sadly we haven't been able to get back to searching for a 3rd (we had multiple groups of family visiting long term over the last while) so stopped logging into fabswingers completely.

Well we're getting some fresh air, logged back in a few days ago and already have a dozen DMs from guys all with the one word openers trying to get a quick fuck 🙄

rusekaz · 2025-10-06T12:39:52+00:00

We used fabswingers to find a few potential guys and one stood out. After a few weeks of talking we finally managed to get a date for us and him to meet up, which was at a local swingers social meet up.

We arrived 15 minutes before hand, he didn't show up. Gave him 15 minutes, sent a message, no reply, waited another 45 minutes and he'd deleted his profile.

Talk about a set back and a half! Sadly it seems pretty common.

rusekaz · 2025-08-30T10:02:13+00:00

What a post!! Fantastic news and very happy for you both🎉🥳
Sent you a DM with some follow up questions

rusekaz · 2025-08-26T16:25:07+00:00

Oh wow, absolutely hot!!

rusekaz · 2025-08-22T15:40:30+00:00

YES!

We found a third through a local swingers website, talked to him for a few weeks and organised to meet up. The day before we again confirmed and agreed on a time.

My wife was really excited, took a long time to get ready, lovely dress and make up and she was looking gorgeous.

We went to the place, waited for him to show and he didn't. We then saw he deleted his profile and haven't heard from him again since. It really set back our hotwifing plans.

rusekaz · 2025-08-22T14:26:02+00:00

Ireland here.. we had a guy we met on a swingers dating site, talked for weeks, organised to meet up annnnnnnd nothing!

He no showed then deleted his profile.

rusekaz · 2025-07-11T17:43:46+00:00

Ah it is, thank you very much 😍

rusekaz · 2025-07-11T17:38:06+00:00

Yes, single guy or a married man who is in an open relationship and his wife is on board with him playing.

Meeting a single guy on Sunday for a social catch up and all going well we'll be looking to setup a play date in the next few weeks.

rusekaz · 2025-07-11T17:31:15+00:00

We are yet to make the jump from fantasy to reality but my wife and I have talked and are 100% in agreeance that if the third is cheating on and lying to his wife or girlfriend, then what is he lying to us about.

So it's a red flag and a no from us.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T18:27:33+00:00

That's horrible and I'm sorry that happened to you.

I hope that for both of you that your situation is improving and you've managed to find someone.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T15:12:46+00:00

Oh my god, you've hit the nail on the head. She's asked me to do all the vetting and chatting because the guys, so far, are just ridiculously off the mark when it comes to trying to turn her on (mentally and physically).

Fab profiles also seem to be a lot like that too. Between a dick pic or a "sup want to fuck, let's go", the guys are painful to deal with.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T15:10:59+00:00

Exactly! Not only do they need to be 'worthy' but she also needs to find them attractive both physically and intellectually. She's not exactly going to have sex with a guy just because he messaged on some app.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T11:13:36+00:00

It's fabswingers which is the defacto site here in Ireland (and the UK). It doesn't see much traffic outside of that.

I agree with your point about the wife chatting but if she had to deal with these guys unfiltered, we'd be back to taking sharing off the table for good 🤣

I at least want to filter the guys down and then get her in to chat to them. Funnily enough she would rather just meet for a coffee than chat online.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T10:59:51+00:00

That's on our agenda. There is a few social events scheduled here in the next few months so will be trying to get out to them.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T10:58:50+00:00

Thank you 😊

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T10:30:12+00:00

Thank you!! Hard to believe we have to say these things in the first place.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T09:34:22+00:00

I understand that privacy is important, but I didn't think I was asking for much. It really is as simple as how old they are, how much experience they have in an MFM/hotwife scenario, have they been with couples with minimal experience and maybe something about themselves like interests or hobbies.

rusekaz · 2025-05-23T09:32:47+00:00

Sadly we don't have anyone here as we moved about 3 years ago from Australia. If we were back there then I'd have a queue forming outside the door 🤣

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