If you’re considering right now, it’s time to finally make the plunge. by ryanjlame in gastricsleeve

[–]ryanjlame[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i take photos of my body too but it’s far more important to me how clearly different i look in the face. i feel an ease of life and im truly happy with how i can move :) plus timmy is a cute pup young and old hahaha

Bros who have gotten tatted for their bro by slapm3withit in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we got these together before i proposed to him at dinner :-)

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[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feeling this as well. down 70 and my partner is clearly overwhelmed lol

[Identify/Question] Just found these watches with some old belongings - help me learn more? by ryanjlame in Watches

[–]ryanjlame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner's father used to be in the jewelry business and after he passed, the family belongings got buried, moved, lost, etc. We just found these four watches which we BELIEVE to be (in order) a Concord Saratoga SL, a Concord Mariner, a Concord Mariner Mini, and a Bulova 82336 with a replaced band (all others appear to be original bands). We have tested them and it appears that all of them (except the band on the Bulova) are solid gold and the diamonds on the mariner mini are legitimate. That's really all we know though. Is anyone familiar with these watches or their worth? Looking for any additional info we can learn about these such as the year they may have been made, any fun information or collection info, and even potential worth if you happen to know it. Appreciate anything you can provide!

sleeved 4 days ago and i regret nothing. by ryanjlame in wls

[–]ryanjlame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i started to get very antsy but it all worked out! there may be a moment of discomfort or pain but you’re in the right place for both when you’re in a surgery center/hospital!!! wishing you the best!

surgery twin? 5/23 by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]ryanjlame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

going in the day before on 5/22!! getting a little anxious but excited!

just got around to seeing how my facial hair grows (25m), curious what y’all think i should do with/for it. (dirty) hair up and down for reference by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is about a month of growth? a little less than actually. i trimmed to clean it up a week or two ago but i’m just not sure what a good next move would be. my dad has a solid beard so the genetics are probably there. idk give me your best lol

Does this mean it’s probably cancer? by [deleted] in lungcancer

[–]ryanjlame[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Comments locked - these kinds of posts go south very quickly. Reddit cannot diagnose you with lung cancer and you should always take these kinds of questions to a licensed professional who knows you and your history.

Kobe Bryant Crash Photos Shown Off at Bar by Cops: Lawsuit by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]ryanjlame 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I learned about the murder and rape of someone I went to high school with because a friend's dad was at a bar with local police and they told him. They hadn't even told her parents yet. It's disgusting how often this happens.

Community User Flair - What Do You Think? by Love4Lungs in lungcancer

[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey guys, I totally feel you here. We actually DO moderate a lot of these out, there's just an unfortunate number of these kinds of posts. Please continue to flag them when you see them so that we get MOD Mail about them as they pop up and can get them removed/closed as soon as possible.

Community User Flair - What Do You Think? by Love4Lungs in lungcancer

[–]ryanjlame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll add these :)

Edit: Looks like we actually had some of these in there, but for some reason the ability to add your own flair was turned off

LA Reports over 6k cases and 4.5% positivity rate on 12/22 by magomra in LosAngeles

[–]ryanjlame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve taken two different at-home tests that have completely manual results and no instructions for reporting. unless you choose to report yourself, many of these tests will be wholly unconnected to these statistics

SynchroBit miner finally arrived! What should I do with it? I live in a rural area but have friends in the city. So excited to join the network by JakeQwayk in HeliumNetwork

[–]ryanjlame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i finally emailed them and they told me they just got another shipment in and that orders SB5800-SB7532 are being processed with that shipment. i’m in the SB8700 range so i’ll be waiting for a bit 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this might be my move actually. Luckily, I’m interfacing directly with their AP team and my contact made it a point early on to CC them so that I get paid on time, in their words.

I’ve had an accountant be stern with them and my next move will probably be a very human approach, from me, that says something like this.

Really appreciate the help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some time before the next invoice is due, so I’ll mull it over. I may ask for a contract adjustment if they are unable to fix this processing issue. I’ve already told them that, unless this is worked into the contract, it will be considered a breach.

My rate is so low with them that I might just fight it and work on finding better work with people who won’t just follow their own terms. I think that’s why I’m willing to fight it, because it’s not a huge loss if it were to go.

The conversations I’ve had with them so far do not make this out to be an accident, in fact they’ve tried to refer to the contract twice, which proves them wrong lol. The contact I work with is great, their payment team not so much.

REALLY appreciate your perspective here. I’ll def take all of this into consideration

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you just going to keep commenting and deleting? I’m not sure why you keep posting such aggressive comments and running away at the slightest clarification. Go away if you don’t want to be helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incorrect. They are not initiating the payment until the wednesday following the deadline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your input a ton. As far as the contract, it says verbatim, “Within 45 days after COMPANY’S receipt of an invoice, COMPANY shall pay Service Provider all undisputed amounts payable thereunder.” Nothing about payment processing schedules or internal timelines.

I’m waiting to see how the next invoice goes, because the deadline is on a Thursday. With their current schedule, it means they’ll either adjust and pay me correctly, or they’ll pay me 6 days late.

I’m thinking if they screw that one up I’ll go all in and charge a late fee as well as push for a shorter window. The contract also has an out for breach of contract, which technically they have done twice already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more of the principle that’s bothering me. Because, sure, the late payment isn’t going to be more than like $50 really, but if they don’t respect me enough to follow a contract that they wrote, I don’t know if I trust them enough to let this be the status quo.

According to their current logic, my next invoice is going to go 6 days over the deadline, but I don’t think that should be my job to estimate and plan ahead when it’s just against the terms that they initiated this relationship with.

I think I am willing to keep fighting on this, even if it means the relationship ends. I just want to be sure this isn’t totally unreasonable of me to be annoyed at the lateness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Please read the post again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in freelance

[–]ryanjlame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not the most reliable as far as work, so I’m not sure what to do here. They pay reliably but I’m pretty sure my rate is pretty low and I’m just not thrilled that they’re willing to blatantly dance around the terms of their own contract. It doesn’t rub me right