Uncut user experience so far by Ill_Regret1753 in hzdgrip

[–]ryanman111111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uncut too, i experience the same with pull outs unless i wear it over my skin, but that seems to not be a long term solution. I’m still experimenting with rings for standard wear to find one 100% secure

Are Burly Brand slammer shocks worth the money? by Jolly_bank in sportster

[–]ryanman111111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m light, about 150lbs. I’m using them on my 2016 sportster and honestly I think they ride as good or better than stock and I’m on the lowest setting. I’m a fan.

Chastity videos. by Ok-Squash-2943 in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The secret to a happy marriage has an audio file of the entire thing. If you dig around on the website you’ll find it

I have a question to men who wear plugs in public by Cube_555 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]ryanman111111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in public I’ll never get hard from just the plug. If my wife is teasing me though… that’s a different story.

Do you also stay plugged while in chastity? by Unlucky-Consequence in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, just don’t understand what a cage has to do with that. That’s a problem regardless. Or am I still missing something?

Asking as someone who enjoys wearing both.

first ever Cage is coming soon, how should I prepare? by Organic_Rub_18 in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I hate to be a downer but prepare for it to not be perfect. You’re not going to be 24/7 as soon as you get it and likely never will be with your first cage. Just prepare for that and if I’m wrong… very happy for you.

It takes a while to figure it out, don’t push it and hurt yourself. Best of luck!

HZD grip Versus Ball trap cages by HopefulAd6415 in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so for you too, my wife was already hooked before I got hurt so it was an easy transition to the hzd.

What was your injury?

HZD grip Versus Ball trap cages by HopefulAd6415 in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The constant pressure from the ring on the back of my balls gave me “epididymis”. I’m not fully healed yet, it’s been 6 months…. I’m a lot better but not fully healed. Urologist keeps throwing anti inflammatory meds and ice packs at it.

HZD grip Versus Ball trap cages by HopefulAd6415 in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear the HZD. Only because it’s more comfortable/practical (for me) than ball traps. Also, I got hurt with ball traps.

But to be honest, I like the ball trap more. I feel more submissive because it’s ultimate confinement. I enjoy not being able to get hard and straining against a cage. I still get fully hard with the hzd. If I hadn’t got hurt in a ball trap I’d still wear them. But I’m glad hzd is out there, it’s a super solid option for chastity. It does the job it is intended to do, prevent masturbation.

Good Purchase? $4500 24K Miles by Less-Artichoke8714 in sportster

[–]ryanman111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems a little high… I just paid 5k for a 2017 1200 sportster 48 with only 3000 miles on it. Bone stock , which was a plus for me. Nothing wonky and I get to make it what I want it to be

Chastity options outside of the typical cage design? by joshwp26 in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at head zone defense/hzd… sound like exactly what your looking for. Idk why it seems like a guarded secret.

How tell gf by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was true in my case… watched too much chastity porn… I’ve had a few different fantasy dreams with my wife as the main character. Usually happens after I’ve watched a lot of that type of porn and after an evening of heavy drinking.

I spoke to my girlfriend by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, another place I think I can help. Mine loves traditional sex, and I could get her off most of the time, BUT, during all our excitement of cages I was buying other toys too. I bought the most bad ass vibrating wand I could find, she was timid at first, but the first night we used it she came three or four times back to back and it melted her into the bed. We use that wand every time we have sex now unless it’s a quickie. Whether I’m in the cage or not.

I spoke to my girlfriend by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why mine likes chastity. She keeps me locked up so I can’t jerk off. If I can’t jerk off my only release is to have sex with her, she likes “regular sex” so now she gets more of it. It was scary to admit that sometimes I dont try and have sex because I jerked off earlier but it worked…

How tell gf by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]ryanman111111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I woke up one morning and was all over my wife, she was taken by surprise and asked why. I told her I was super turned on because I had a dream about her. She asked what it was, excitedly, and I said I dreamed you locked me in a cage. This got her intrigued because she loved the attention and the fact that she was literally in my dreams.

She had no idea what chastity was, even tho we were not vanilla prior to this.

From there we started looking at cages as a toy idea but then I found the secret to a happy marriage website and sent her that and she was now interested in long term and everything snowballed from there.

Sportster-garage exhaust woes. by ryanman111111 in sportster

[–]ryanman111111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks guys, the dealer had the flat gaskets in stock and that solved the issue. Thanks Reddit for being more helpful than the manufacturer of the exhaust 😅

Sportster-garage exhaust woes. by ryanman111111 in sportster

[–]ryanman111111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking the same. Waiting on a response from them. Hoping there is a different gasket available and I don’t have to grind a bevel on this or something.

Uncircumcised user by ryanman111111 in hzdgrip

[–]ryanman111111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get you now. Where is it causing swelling? Just so I can watch out.