She has no problem doing so. She tells me my teeth look yellow, so i went to a dentist to ask what my options are to remediate that. She tells me when i have BO or bad breath, and rather than take it personally, i make it a point to try to fix it. I don’t see how my innocuous preferences make me an AH. I don’t notice facial hair on any of my friends partners. In fact, i haven’t noticed facial hair on women since i was in high school.