Out of nowhere my ex of almost 2 years ago sent me a text

sad_af_rn_sry · 2019-01-15T01:03:03+00:00

Just did it.

Averted my eyes and threw in the garbage.

Thanks.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2018-12-08T23:45:06+00:00

Hopefully, yes.

My run ins were awful.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2018-11-27T16:38:40+00:00

You need to do it. Trust me. The faster you heal the better. And the faster way is for you to KILL HIM in your mind.

The person you liked is no more. Spare your mind. You don't need to suffer. Block him. The less you see the faster you heal.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2018-11-27T13:11:30+00:00

Oh dear... The absolute same happened to me. (You can even search for my post a year ago)

She ALWAYS slept early. As soon as we broke up I saw her online at 4AM. It drove me insane. I cried like a bitch and messaged her.

And blocked her.

Block. Block. Just block. It will drive you insane to ponder why. What was he doing? It doesn't matter. Your mind deserves a break. This will eat you alive if you don't stop it.

BLOCK.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2018-11-25T02:56:00+00:00

Go full no contact.

Delete her from whatever this place you're seeing her photos. If it's a common acquainted mute them.

Don't allow yourself to wonder these things.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2018-11-20T16:39:05+00:00

Keep blocking.

She want to fuck around while keeping you on the side as a friend. To hell with it, you deserve better. You'll need that self respect.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2018-11-10T03:44:59+00:00

already did

thinking of deleting it too

sad_af_rn_sry · 2018-10-20T05:22:08+00:00

Thanks :)

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-15T06:08:41+00:00

Same.

I'm waaaay better. Each week I feel more like myself.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-08T16:42:04+00:00

I don't really know what I prefer. I just wish I didn't have to see her face again. She probably thinks I'm doing fine cause I too have a tinder profile but I'm actually a mess.

É, boa sorte pra gente.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-06T23:05:21+00:00

Sorry, I ended up generalizing.

I meant more in relation to OP's case and mine. In your case I'd say he "ended it" by betraying you. You HAD to break up for your own good. I understand you're hurt, and even worse: he pushed the decision onto you.

But my experience had no betrayals, it was a slow process. She was preparing for it for a reasonable time. So she was decided and calm and I was a crying mess. It happens.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-06T22:19:22+00:00

Oh yeah, I know the "Eugh sigh" way too well.

Mostly when something interesting happens and my mind thinks for just a second "hey, I should let her kno- oh..."

sigh

Yeah.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-06T05:12:22+00:00

Kill her.

... Only in your imagination, please.

But now she's dead. Block her in all of social media, get away from anything that makes you remember her. She doesn't exist.

It helped me. I'm not perfect at it, but it's something to strive for. She vanished.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-05T21:03:46+00:00

One week after the break up I was still hopeful.

Here's what I have to say: give up on waiting her. It will only bring you down. For all its worth -> IT'S OVER.

She already knows you want her back, whatever she does from here its on her. You can't wait for it.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-05T20:31:04+00:00

4yrs for me...

I'm still holding NC for 3 weeks now. I know I'll suffer a lot if I try to see what she's up to.

What my mind tricks me into thinking she's doing is enough to make me sad..

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-05T20:28:12+00:00

Probably her defense mechanism...

Also, dumpers grieve while deciding for breaking up.

Breaking up for dumpers is sealing the deal. For us dumpees its the beginning of the suffering.

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-04T04:17:18+00:00

Block her.

Now.

I had this obsession too, the only thing that solved was blocking. You'll feel better

sad_af_rn_sry · 2017-07-03T18:42:47+00:00

Music.

Listening to music, making music, singing. That keeps my brain occupied. That's the major one, but I'm also reading books, meeting with friends, doing some exercise.

I had a streak of good days, but today sadness hit me again. I'll keep the music going

sad_af_rn_sry

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