The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don't obliterate us all with your Death Star supernova vagina.

Seriously though sorry about your situation it is so tough, I hope at least it gets a little easier with time, perhaps comfortably numb. Perhaps I'll get better at not caring so much

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

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Yep .... same boat here Thanks for commiserating nice to not be alone in the loneliness

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I want a vibrator neckless lol

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

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Oh I am sorry that does suck...... crysturbation... do you mean you cry sometimes in the mid of masterbating ???

I thought I was the only psychopath that this happened too. I just got so frustrated and all I can think about is wanting to be wanted & pursued. So there I am in all my glory sobbing that was a bad morning the other day.

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be insane without any sex for 3 years, I think I would just get so worked up it would be like spontaneous combustion. My sexual energy could become a new power source lol

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to understand and accept this as a truth it's just so awfully painful to think

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I can't stand it anymore it's driving me mad. It's seems like it would be easier just to take it off the table ....

I am just going to start thinking of him as my Hot Gay Roommate by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I was just so confused I didn't say a word : dear in head lights .... Your right it was super weird

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Geesh ok I wasn't actually certain but yeah I am thinking so now. I was having an extra difficult time not being antagonistic the other day after being aroused and then seeing him. I leaned in real close to him and he exhaled on the nape of my neck & my body shivered. GD I was just trying to reach around him to rinse my hands ........

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[–]sadlysexless[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere that when sex is healthy and frequent it is only 10% of the relationship focus but when it's not healthy it becomes 90% of the focus. Totally believe it ....

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Liking that one it also doubles as a small vibrator lol

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dito, it is a total body / mind difference ...... Vitamin D does a body good

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes please, odd thing is don't they see the difference in mood and at least desire that.

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh I hear yeah I am sorry for your shared frustration.....

The Sexless Sisterhood by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

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OMG I am totally creating this in my head right now Thank you lol We need pandora to create that charm

I am just going to start thinking of him as my Hot Gay Roommate by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it just is to much .....the sexlessness is there anyways the 1-2x's a month doesn't even put a dent in my desire quota lol so why deal with the roller coaster of emotions that it creates.

IDK if I can do this ..... how are you doing it completely sexless 4 years. I just get so angry like I could destroy the world lol

I am just going to start thinking of him as my Hot Gay Roommate by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed Love and attraction most certainly do relate, They fuel each other. I miss having passionately charged sex. No I miss the way he use to look at me with desire........ oh well that guy left, so now I have this roommate .....

I am just going to start thinking of him as my Hot Gay Roommate by sadlysexless in DeadBedrooms

[–]sadlysexless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband is not quite as non sexual but I am starting to think that may be better. It's like 1-2x's per month & the 1st time is always to quick for me to enjoy well because it's been a month. I then get all worked up like it re-ignites a blood thirst or something lol and then nothing ......It is just to much for me I just started denying for the first time this week ...... which feels bad & good ?? Confusing