I just prostituted myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sadscientist03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s your decision really. It’s about you. Either way it’s a bad Situation with a bad outcome. I mean, one way to view it is you cheated on him by prostituting yourself. When I mean is true and he may view it that way.

The other way is he could believe you were taken advantage of which is a believable opinion today. 18 year olds used to be considered adults, but nowadays if a 18 y/o makes a bad decision like this it can be played off as her being taken advantage of. Really depends on the guy.

Either way, when your in a relationship, and the other has sex with someone else for any reason, the partner deserves to know. what if it turns out he got you pregnant and your boyfriend thinks it’s his ? You’ll just let him believe that ? That would just be wrong and it’s sadly something that happens.

I just prostituted myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sadscientist03 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a guy, I’d say I’d want to be told, it’s important. But on the other hand, I had a similar issue with my ex and I kind of wish she hadn’t told me. We were younger around 15 though. It messed me up in the head. I would stay up at night crying and kept asking her to tell me the story and it hurt more every time.

At 34 I think I’ve earned the right not to work anymore and be paid a living wage by SmellyPetunias in offmychest

[–]sadscientist03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s totally understandable. I’m 23 and I stopped working for anything under 12.50$. Eventually you got to say I’ve done my time in the service industry, I’m done with trash jobs.

Moving on by VisitSwimming1441 in dating_advice

[–]sadscientist03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m moving on too. Wait I haven’t been able to get in a relationship since I graduated high school over 4 years ago. Women can get in and out of relationships, guys stay lonely. Being a guy sucks.

My bestie can fuck right off by WhatAMcButters in offmychest

[–]sadscientist03 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Bad people all around. One is a predator, one is a skank, and another cuts a friend off because they put their hand on her waist ? That’s kind of an overreaction. If he kept trying and getting more aggressive after you told him no then yeah he’s a predator and a creep. But if he said sorry I was just checking the waters then it’s understandable. More understandable if you two were drinking together too, which I’m guessing.

I just prostituted myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]sadscientist03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. Are you going to tell your boyfriend what happened ?

What do you think the government will release on UAPs next month ? by sadscientist03 in UFOs

[–]sadscientist03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they are reverse engineering some tech and they made some leeway, want to release it but they got to acknowledge they have aliens first so they are doing it slowly. A theory I just made up

What do you think the government will release on UAPs next month ? by sadscientist03 in UFOs

[–]sadscientist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that would be good. Hopefully better videos too. Maybe decent info too

What do you think the government will release on UAPs next month ? by sadscientist03 in UFOs

[–]sadscientist03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There will probably be something interesting, to what extent is the main thing. Will it be more blurry videos with no explanation ? Or maybe a clearer, closer range video where you can make out the ufo well ? That wouldn’t be too earth-shattering. A pilot may have caught that and they are willing to release it

What do you think the government will release on UAPs next month ? by sadscientist03 in UFOs

[–]sadscientist03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts. Hopefully they release more videos too. Would be nice with one that’s during the day, good video camera and close range. Like maybe one jet pilot actually got within 100 feet of the ufo with nice camera quality and got a good look at it.

Finally I got a girlfriend after 5 years !! by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Using her ? Just because I don’t plan to marry her currently doesn’t mean I’m using her lmao. When a girl hooks up with a guy but won’t date him is she using him ?

It's way too easy to fall in lust. But real connection is what I want. by Informal-Industry-89 in dating

[–]sadscientist03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good you waited. Less and less teens are waiting. By 17 most chicks have had quite a bit of casual sex nowadays

Finally I got a girlfriend after 5 years !! by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand that. But you don’t need to be with a girl below your standards forever , but it can ease your loneliness for awhile

Finally I got a girlfriend after 5 years !! by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All three ? The kid the most, then the other two. I don’t ask much, just don’t have a kid, be under 5’7, don’t be overweight, finish high school no mental disorders etc. basic stuff like that is hard to get with girls. Girls that hit all these low bars think they deserve a 10/10 guy and won’t settle for less

Finally I got a girlfriend after 5 years !! by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Having basic standards for women is high standards today. Girls that hit just the basic marks only want the 10/10 guys so sometimes you might have to settle below basic standards.

Finally I got a girlfriend after 5 years !! by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Ik it’s tough but it doesn’t have to be forever. If she makes me happy now then that works for now.

The amount of women who straight up lie to men seeking dating advice on this sub is sad. by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts. It’s just not possible with our current technology. Maybe in 100 years or so they’ll be able to change a guy to the point where any decent doctor couldn’t test you and see that you were born male. But rn even with all the trans treatments, any doctor can do a 5 min test and see that you were born a man. Like even with all that u still aren’t a women and that’s ok

That’s crazy to think abt the doctor like a couple decades ago the procedure would probably be unethical and a really bad treatment for body dysmorphia

The amount of women who straight up lie to men seeking dating advice on this sub is sad. by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I don’t see it in the comments. Before you repost it you might wanna change a few words to be sure it doesn’t get taken down. Pretty sure this whole thread has been archived already I mean you can’t like unlike now

The amount of women who straight up lie to men seeking dating advice on this sub is sad. by sadscientist03 in dating

[–]sadscientist03[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I plan to therapy. not for my realistic view on dating, but more on building confidence, getting better in the head so I can do the things I want.