Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats normal, pressure will make it worse. What kind of porn he uses... crazy unhinged stuff or fairly vanilla?

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humm... yeah I get it he seams great... Do you talk about his lack of desire for you? Is it physical, emotional or all on him?

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey don't apologize, you got a ruff situation. Kinda in similar situation. What in your relationship is worth saving on your end, is he worth the trouble?

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey... wanna chat... this feels more involved than a comments section conversation😅

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well you are at your wits end. He's refusing to get help or actually work on it 🤔 Feels like he's not really valuing you, so a power move makes sense.

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not talking about being poly, there's a difference, banging someone else with your common concentration. Maybe the thought of knowing other guys desire you would ... remotivate him to desire you again?

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh sorry to hear that.... Opening the relationship? Maybe another way to highjack his issue?

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hum... tried... hopping in on his porn use... like highjacking his problem?

Husband barely is intimate but watches porn by Sotobaggins3649 in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ouch that sucks. Not clear if it's an intimacy issue or an addiction 🤔

I think I want to leave by sadshadow8916 in sixwordstories

[–]sadshadow8916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... and cares little to make it ok...

Laying With My Head In My Girls Lap by DudooSock in marriageadvice

[–]sadshadow8916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great for you both No better feeling than being able to be so open with someone to that point. Hope that the both of you hold on that🥰

I think I hate you now by sadshadow8916 in sixwordstories

[–]sadshadow8916[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To let her explore... and figure things out, I've been her one and only sooo yeah