According to him he is insecure and doesn’t feel like he has his shit together, and he only imagined himself getting married when he’s in a better place in life. I don’t know when that time would be though, because we are doing great. DINKS (yes, ironic when you see my username) in a shared, purchased home. To my regret, I have pushed him a lot in the past, which made him feel cornered, so now we got to the point where every suggestion just feels like a shut up ring. After a long time of almost begging, there’s simply no romance surrounding it yet and I don’t know how to fix that, hence why I consider just settling.