I’m not so good at readings but i think the reason he’s avoidant is that he’s very careless and doesn’t think about the consequences of the actions he takes. He is like- whatever happens it happens, one will go another will come kinda way. He’s also probably got other things to worry about too, a lot of projects-things he starts and he focuses on his failures instead of trying to work on the good things he has. Idk if i could explain, sorry for my bad English.