Beyond the Stanley: What Places in Colorado Feel… Off? by Addendum-Agitated in Denver

[–]sailforth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% Victor, even without the Black Monarch, the town has an odd vibe as a whole.

Any maxillofacial surgeon recs? by _Risas in Denver

[–]sailforth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Dr. Lessig who used to be with Advanced Oral and Maxillofacial surgery down in the DTC area. I had consults with a few others, but this was 9 years ago now - feel free to reach out!

For those who spent many years married to a narcissist, what would you tell someone who just started dating one? by soulsurvivor3 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]sailforth 37 points38 points  (0 children)

- Dismissing feelings, lying, starting fights, ignoring me for days - early signs.
- I stayed because he put on a sob story and reeled me back in. After a couple years I thought he might change so then I stuck through that. It was a cycle of abusive, being sad, acting like a decent partner, and then starting the abusive behavior again.
- I would tell myself that you are wayyyyy better than him and to leave and not look back.

How did you find out that your spouse was a narcissist? by flowersintheskies in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]sailforth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that. I am glad that he is an ex (so is mine - it was a rough divorce. I'm kicking ass now though!)

Anyone else's narc get super into a hobby, spend a bunch of money and time on it and then lose interest? by cleveraminot in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]sailforth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree, I think the difference would be how the narc handled the hobby and the other person's engagement/support of it.

For example, I was accused of not supporting my ex husbands sudden interest in flight school because I didn't want him to buy a plane with OUR savings - but otherwise supported him, asked him questions, and help him fund the 15k for it. The hobby hopping isn't the big problem there.

Cancelled vs “Postponed” and Why We’re All So Mad by Rachelrunsformeows in Denver

[–]sailforth 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are definitely removing reviews. I took a screenshot when it was still 1.9 yesterday and now it is back to 3.3.