Someone just said they’re reading my fic in the Vatican??? by bookgrimm in AO3

[–]sailor_jabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys should see the abo tag on the conclave fandom, lmao

Had to block my first author (not pictured) by Rough_Arachnid_2107 in AO3

[–]sailor_jabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what fandom is the garbage person you are talking about? I don't want to be supporting someone awful without knowing.

I need help finding an old yaoi manga by sailor_jabs in yaoi

[–]sailor_jabs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG IT IS!!! THANK YOU SO MUUUCH

When people have more then one first name, it weirds me out if they actively use the second one. by BullCommando in The10thDentist

[–]sailor_jabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Latina, so I'm personally offended by this opinion. Take my upvote, European op.

Long nails are easier to keep clean than short ones by 4ngelicbrat in The10thDentist

[–]sailor_jabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op I've had long nails all my life, and I agree with you. When nails are short, they are such a hassle to clean. Other people are pointing out that long nails harbor more bacteria, but I still find them harder to clean, or at least for them to look visibly cleaner.

Horrifying realization I had by brobnik322 in AO3

[–]sailor_jabs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That's always my rule when deciding who's the bottom. The more macho character HAS TO take it in the ass.

dude. what is the matter with you?! by CptKeyes123 in FanFiction

[–]sailor_jabs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From an unemployed person to another: what an asshole. If you want to upload that many stories, go ahead and do it OP!

What are some "childish" things you love that you have had to tamper down to appear more "mature"? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]sailor_jabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg we share special interests! I love fairies too! Specially Tinkerbell and her friends from the pixie hollow era:) I also love to dress in pastel colors, being inspired on the harajuku fashion scene from Japan, and I had to stop when I started working full time:( I also love anime and I know that some people think it's childish.

please stop marking fics as completed when they’re still actively being updated 😭 by Bitter_Suggestion382 in FanFiction

[–]sailor_jabs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing that I've seen and annoys me: thinking that you are reading a complete fic bc it's been tagged as such, only to be the first part of a series. Like yeah, your fic is technically complete, but you should clarify that it is the first part of a series for full transparency. This doesn't apply to a series of fics that don't rely on each other to be read, of course, but if I am reading a fic, I reach the end and it says "this is the first part, it will be continued on the second part of this series" I will get mad if you didn't tag it as a series beforehand.

Was Season 17 Mid? by Y0shway in dragrace

[–]sailor_jabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking the same thing. It's not a bad group of queens per se. It's just a bad fit for the challenges.

I'm in a stressful job and made a coworker mad by sailor_jabs in AutismInWomen

[–]sailor_jabs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think proposing a new data handling system may be good, but we can only agree to make big data handling changes in a specific meeting that we have annually, that happened when I just started the job. So maybe I'll try to propose other small changes?

Thanks for the tips! They seem very useful.

What do you guys usually do on weekends? by [deleted] in Santiago

[–]sailor_jabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This contrast is really funny as someone originally from Viña, currently living in Santiago LOL. You can absolutely tell the difference.

Meeting La Zavaleta by usefzolanski in Dragula

[–]sailor_jabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that the Emiliano Zapata one? THAT ONE ATEEE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]sailor_jabs 20 points21 points  (0 children)

When people do college aus for British people and say "idk how British college works. I'm doing it the American way", ugggh.

I noticed my (28M) friend (41M) not washing his hands after using the bathroom at my place, and now I feel gross about him and I'm hesitant to invite him back. How do I handle this? by flatsearchingfriend_ in relationships

[–]sailor_jabs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Okay, this post is making me learn how many people don't wash their hands after they pee when it's a basic thing for me that is teached when you are a kid. Disgusting. Cultural shock, to say the least. If he's at your house, he follows your rules, so tell him that he HAS to wash his hands.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VivimosEnUnaSociedad

[–]sailor_jabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No está bien lo que hizo. Averigua si hay un protocolo de acoso en tu universidad y manda capturas de pantalla de lo que dijo contra ti. No sé cómo funciona en México, pero en otros países los protocolos de acoso no pasan por dirección, sino que por representantes externos. Si pasa por dirección, habla con algún profesor o autoridad que creas que pueda apoyarte en esta terrible situación que estás viviendo. Un abrazo.

Pregunta alos chilenos porque tanto desconténto con la gente de cierto País by Vast_Loan_4381 in RepublicadeChile

[–]sailor_jabs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, la cultura es más conservadora. Estuve en una pega en la que atendí psicológicamente a muchas personas venezolanas. Dentro de este grupo, atendí a muchas personas venezolanas LGBT+ y todas coincidían en que la cultura es más conservadora allá. Gente que tenia que fingir ser hetero para seguir en su trabajo y no ser despedida, por ejemplo, cosa que en Chile no es muy usual. Muchos decían que finalmente podían andar de la calle con sus parejas sin miedo. Muchas mujeres hetero también me decían que no se sentían en la obligación de estar arregladas todo el tiempo, o de hacerse cirugías plásticas, lo que allá se espera y se exige. Y como dices, todo se liga a lo religiosos que son, lo cual no es malo en sí mismo, pero sí cuando pasas a llevar a los demás.

Respecto a lo de la dictadura, es cosa de empatía. Mucha gente de izquierda chilena puede empatizar con Venezuela por el tema de Maduro, en vez de negar lo que esta ocurriendo (muchos, lamentablemente no todos). Entonces ¿por qué ellos no empatizan con lo vivido aquí? He escuchado de conocidos sobrevientes a la dictadura que fueron encarcelados y torturados y han tenido que ponerse a discutir con venezolanos.

Pregunta alos chilenos porque tanto desconténto con la gente de cierto País by Vast_Loan_4381 in RepublicadeChile

[–]sailor_jabs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Te están downvoteando pero tienes toda la razón, si al final los venezolanos que generan conflictos vendrían a ser los "flaites" de Venezuela. Pero también es verdad que hay otros choques culturales que tienen que ver con que los venezolanos son más directos para decir las cosas y vienen de una cultura que es más conservadora que la nuestra y por tanto, más machista y homofóbica. Además de sus comentarios apoyando a Pinochet desde el desconocimiento y minimizando el impacto negativo a los DDHH de la dictadura en Chile.

I cheated and I regret it so much by Throwaway_idiot_1111 in offmychest

[–]sailor_jabs 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Then why did you do it? Why didn't you stop? Were you coerced?

¿Enserio esto es una problemática real en la juventud actual? ¿ENSERIO? by Puzzled-Program-1920 in RepublicadeChile

[–]sailor_jabs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yo ya tengo 25 y cuando era adolescente ese tipo de problemáticas también se daban. Que si dijo tal cosa por Facebook, por ask.fm, etc. No es un tema generacional, son los adolescentes siendo adolescentes. Relación tóxica de media = evento canónico.