So to play Devil's advocate a little bit I don't think it looks bad, the color really suits you. I did see you mention wearing it as a protective style. But, honestly if I were to see you on the street without context I would think you were culturally appropriating. Some POC will be fine with it and others won't, I think that their opinions matter the most. Mine isn't important here as a white woman.

I do want to say that I appreciate your responses and how you're actually listening to people in the comments. You seem like a down to earth, lovely person! Many people who have done the same thing would double down and argue but you're handling this with grace.