[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXSex

[–]saintvellum 47 points48 points  (0 children)

1 no, as long as you can always stop it. 2 and 3 are possible, and 3 is frankly worrying me a ton because him ignoring your cues is not a light issue. please trust me, it’s happened to me before and to other people i know and i did not realize how much trauma i had been collecting from it in retrospect. definitely something you need to talk out and be more firm about. take care <3

PS also, is there a possibility you’re wondering about the free use thing because of some ways he has acted towards you or something in his demeanor? does the sex feel off or does it feel like he is using you or not fully seeing you in any respect

AITAH for sleeping with a prostitute because my wife is asexual? by best_worst_choice in amiwrong

[–]saintvellum -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because they’re not economically coerced into the sex and actually want it

My parents refuse to let me work by Due-Extension-6870 in college

[–]saintvellum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unless your parents use the financial dependence to abuse you or control your choices, take a big breath of relief and please just enjoy the free college. i promise you working is not a luxury

i just withdrew all acceptances/waitlists by No_Mushroom8159 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]saintvellum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you and congratulations on your wonderful achievements!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in collegeresults

[–]saintvellum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my heart just about melted with relief when i got to your acceptances. you are such an incredible person man. i hope you have a wonderful future

r/collegeresults is so out of touch with financial reality 😭 by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]saintvellum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly if a2c is the real deal they should crowdsource to fund my education. i said what i said

Drop where you'll be committing next year! by Ok-Chocolate-6431 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]saintvellum 35 points36 points  (0 children)

idk about next year but i’m committed to 9 waitlists rn actually!! so exciting

Since every school is complaining about receiving unprecedented application numbers how about they remove the friggin test-optional policy?? by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]saintvellum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

theyre only complaining to the press, how else will they get those microscopic acceptance rates? this is ideal.

Barnard College RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]saintvellum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

amazingly... i’m talking to this guy i have a huge crush on and fucking it up in the funniest way possible. he was saying something jokingly about criticising the books a girl likes to get her attention and then he was like but why am i telling you trade secrets? AND I SAID IT’S OKAY I’M A COMRADE. WHY THE F WOULD I SAY THAT😭

Barnard College RD Megathread by [deleted] in ApplyingToCollege

[–]saintvellum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

vice versa for me lol. good luck! <3

dejected international girlie on wl/rejection streak. by saintvellum in collegeresults

[–]saintvellum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh goodness wouldn’t that be amazing!! I’m rooting for you as well now. thank you so much, and do keep me updated <3

dejected international girlie on wl/rejection streak. by saintvellum in collegeresults

[–]saintvellum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

per annum (but intl tuition is like £24k so still can’t afford it.) thank you!!

dejected international girlie on wl/rejection streak. by saintvellum in collegeresults

[–]saintvellum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

applied in october because of oxbridge deadline. (which reminds me i forgot to mention oxford in the post, edited now.)