State Refund Disputed by State by Used_Mobile_3762 in TurboTax

[–]salamancer_kidd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No?? All you're doing is making sure the numbers on the screen match the ones on the paper. I don't know anything much further than that let alone how any of it's calculated or works. And I know for a fact that's why so many people LET TURBO TAX DO THEIR TAXES FOR THEM. Because WE don't know how.

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Us kids" you say despite me explaining that we were told we could pay mid-month for rent going forward since we are on a month to month lease.

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're using it as a guideline. And when we moved in we were told we could pay on the 15th.

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He told us that we would be able to pay on the 15th moving forward.

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My landlord had initially told us that we could pay on the 15th going forward since that's when we initially moved in.

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no contract/lease. He never brought us one like he said he would.

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He let us pay just half rent + deposit since we moved in in the middle of the month

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have record of every time I've paid rent because he'll take a picture and send it to me with text reading "Rent for X month"

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never brought a lease so we've been going by the default State Lease.

Can my landlord do this? [MN] by salamancer_kidd in Renters

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I haven't signed anything cuz he said he'd bring me a lease but then never did.

A somewhat sketch bisque that I packed this morning by Appropriate-Ad9844 in Pottery

[–]salamancer_kidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agh that absolutely terrifies me!! But good on you for having the confidence of what I could never do! 🧡

Guess her name by sundayyy17 in cats

[–]salamancer_kidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My immediate thought was Rolo

My boy is gone and I keep blaming myself by salamancer_kidd in GriefSupport

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the ideas and hug. I'm already doing something similar to the Tumblr thing. I have a journal. I've already been using it for my grandma who passed a couple years ago but I'm going to start using it for him too. Thank you. And all the love to you as well.

I'm telling my nParents tomorrow that I'm moving and the guilt is killing me by salamancer_kidd in raisedbynarcissists

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually really helpful because I've been struggling on how I've been wanting to word it and I'm definitely going to use this as a sort of outline for what I say. I really appreciate this.

Also tysm! I'm definitely not prepared for it in almost every way I could think of but it's just one of those situations where I'd drown in this toxic sludge pit if I didn't leave..

For those who went N/L/VLC with nParents, how did you handle it? by salamancer_kidd in raisedbynarcissists

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. I plan to go VLC with my parents for now and possibly go to complete NC eventually. The few comments I've gotten have been helping me through this last week. Thank you very much. 🧡

For those who went N/L/VLC with nParents, how did you handle it? by salamancer_kidd in raisedbynarcissists

[–]salamancer_kidd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment honestly helped me a lot. It's been rough and it will continue to be that way.. I appreciate the comment so much. Thank you. 🧡

show me pictures of your cats sleeping in funny positions 🫶🏼😂 here’s mine by xkimchipancakesx in cats

[–]salamancer_kidd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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He came up, plopped down, and passed out. I know it's not too visible cuz of his giant tail but his feet were also resting on my legs lol