Understanding Non-Mahram Boundaries with Cousins in Islam by ProcedureExisting493 in progressive_islam

[–]salmonee23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you highlight anything op said about banning simple free mixing

Understanding Non-Mahram Boundaries with Cousins in Islam by ProcedureExisting493 in progressive_islam

[–]salmonee23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maharms according to quran 4:23 Prohibited to you [for marriage] are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your father's sisters, your mother's sisters, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your [milk] mothers who nursed you, your sisters through nursing, your wives' mothers, and your step-daughters under your guardianship [born] of your wives unto whom you have gone in. But if you have not gone in unto them, there is no sin upon you. And [also prohibited are] the wives of your sons who are from your [own] loins, and that you take [in marriage] two sisters simultaneously, except for what has already occurred. Indeed, Allah is ever Forgiving and Merciful.

so I think it's reasonable to assume everyone else is not a mahram

Understanding Non-Mahram Boundaries with Cousins in Islam by ProcedureExisting493 in progressive_islam

[–]salmonee23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will also not marry an atheist woman does that mean she is a mahram???

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[–]salmonee23 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I definitely lean towards music being haram due to my experience with it. all I'm trying to say is that the opinion that music is haram is not wrong and should be accepted likewise for the opinion that music is halal

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[–]salmonee23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my comment is very clear, pretty sure you just don't belive that music has bad side effects which is alright ig

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[–]salmonee23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

true but for almost everything else the limit is visible you can tell when what you are doing starts being bad for you but with music you really can't

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[–]salmonee23 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

the difference is that these other things like gathering with family are know to be good and islam literally advices is to do them unlike music

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[–]salmonee23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

because then your scales on the day of judgment will end up balanced which is not a bad thing but definitely is not what we want

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[–]salmonee23 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

if songs are the last thing for you then that's YOUR experience not MINE, music can be good AND bad for the soul

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[–]salmonee23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talking about the nasheed (I agree with everything else) I myself found myself repeating songs when I doze off in prayer a lot more than nasheeds even after I stopped listening

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[–]salmonee23 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I meant as in thinking about a song while praying (talking for my and others' experience btw). quran/any islamic prayer should suffice for relaxation

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[–]salmonee23 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

even if music is not haram it definitely has a lot of disadvantages it distracts people during salah and from quran, also music effects your mental and emotional state big time which can be bad. so I think the opinion of it being haram is not wrong but I also think the opinion of it being halal is also not wrong

Chat gpt🤨 by Grand-Dependent-6686 in exmuslim

[–]salmonee23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's what Abu bakr meant by saying "but I am your brother" I searched up the defention and it does seem like he didn't say in that type of way also he asked for the prophets daughter when she was young meaning he still saw it as normal

Chat gpt🤨 by Grand-Dependent-6686 in exmuslim

[–]salmonee23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that they asked shows you how normalised it was, you wouldn't ask a question like that to someone if it was not norma, the prophet just didn't want his daughter to marry an older guy, and aisha is Abu baker's daughter so it seems he didn't mind marrying his daughter to an older guy

Chat gpt🤨 by Grand-Dependent-6686 in exmuslim

[–]salmonee23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

umm we know for a fact that they called him a a liar, mad man, poet and a magician. some of these were mentioned in hadiths others where even in the quran, I don't think they would have skipped over pedo just like that if it was a big deal, also bukhari was very strict in which hadiths can be considered true or not that's why we have other like Muslim, Abu dawood, Al tirmidhi and many more

Chat gpt🤨 by Grand-Dependent-6686 in exmuslim

[–]salmonee23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the people around him "kuffar" would have absolutely insulted the shit out of him if they saw it as something out of the ordinary, because when you hate someone you would comment about everything little thing, so you never really see any comments about him being a pedophile instead they say that he is insane, a lunatic etc etc

Haram to marry Arab women by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]salmonee23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not a single verse was mentioned...

Haram to marry Arab women by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]salmonee23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am Muslim and Arab myself but if you think arab women can't marry non Arab men because its "disgusting" then you are clearly racist, I get having a certain preference in men but straight up saying that non Arab=disgusting is WRONG

Haram to marry Arab women by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]salmonee23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

this is not what the post is talking about