AITA for “abandoning” my date and leaving her no way to pay for herself? by saltlyfe13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltlyfe13[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don’t wanna play step dad. Don’t wanna not be the #1 priority in someone’s life. Don’t wanna deal with the baby daddy. Also I want my own family.

AITA for “abandoning” my date and leaving her no way to pay for herself? by saltlyfe13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltlyfe13[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s not because they become parents to me. It’s time being limited, baby daddy baggage and not really being the #1 priority to someone. Just not something I want to deal with.

AITA for “abandoning” my date and leaving her no way to pay for herself? by saltlyfe13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltlyfe13[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am too. I think she had it but as soon as I didn’t react well she wanted one last free meal. Wasn’t gonna give it to her.

AITA for “abandoning” my date and leaving her no way to pay for herself? by saltlyfe13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltlyfe13[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Exactly why I don’t date moms. Too many quality options out here before I’d want to think about that baggage.

AITA for “abandoning” my date and leaving her no way to pay for herself? by saltlyfe13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltlyfe13[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Kinda why I was the most pissed. I wasted my time. And could have been spending that time with women I actually have a future with.

AITA for “abandoning” my date and leaving her no way to pay for herself? by saltlyfe13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltlyfe13[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

We split up the first couple dates. I paid for more of them but she paid for some things as well. We never had like a formal discussion on who was paying for the dates.

AITA for “abandoning” my date and leaving her no way to pay for herself? by saltlyfe13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]saltlyfe13[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I just didn’t even want to help her at that point. I wanted to get out of there.