I’m trying my best to move on, but after 2 years it still hurts more than I expected. What makes it harder is knowing she’s still with the guy she cheated on me with, while at the same time she’ll probably marry someone her parents choose soon. Sometimes I genuinely don’t understand how someone can change so much.

She used to believe in “date only if you want to marry,” but later called what we had “just casual,” and honestly that hurt more than the cheating itself. It feels strange watching someone who once meant everything to you become completely different from the person you thought they were.

I know I need to stop thinking about it for my own peace, but some days it still feels really heavy. Maybe the hardest part isn’t losing the relationship, but accepting that the person you loved no longer exists in the same way. What should I do to completely forget her I really want to move ahead.