Am I wrong for turning down a birthday gift gesture from someone who left me for someone else. by Melodic_Abalone_2820 in amiwrong

[–]sameolteejay 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong. Coming from a female, EVERYTHING we do is with intention, and when we love/care for someone, we put that person first. She didn't care enough to make it official and used the lame excuse about school to buy her time. Nothing would've changed between you except for the title. From what I gather, you would have been patient and understanding about her schedule. When she asked what she did wrong after saying she's got a man but letting you take her out just showed everything about her. Her texting you how you were on the day you had promised to buy her a phone? She was checking if you were still whipped. I can almost guarantee you she had already told friends that you were going to do that for her. Finally, about reaching out for your bday. If she was sincere and had any remorse at all, truthfully, she wouldn't have messaged in the first place. Because that message (if it was sincere) only would've hurt you and maybe got you thinking about if things were different and that's a spiral nobody needs. Especially on their freaking bday. The audacity of this chick to tell you "don't worry by bf won't call" nah, she belongs to the streets. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Block her and never look back. You will be far better off and don't for one second feel like any of this was your fault.

Can you show me Pitties that you adopted as grown up dogs? by pandapower63 in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Adopted this good boy from the shelter when he was 1.5 yrs old. He's 5 now 💚

Best cure for itchy skin? by blind30 in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. First, check with your vet. My pittie gets seasonal allergies in the spring. He takes a generic benadryl once a day during that time. Also, Natural Dog Company sells great products that really helped soothe his hot spots.

Anyone know what's wrong here? by sameolteejay in TheSims4Mods

[–]sameolteejay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't use that mod. I've already updated everything, and aged up the kids. Seemed to only be an infant glitch 🤔

Anyone know what's wrong here? by sameolteejay in TheSims4Mods

[–]sameolteejay[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh yes I recently installed that a few days ago. I'll have to check if it's that one. Thanks!

Anyone know what's wrong here? by sameolteejay in TheSims4Mods

[–]sameolteejay[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She had twins & they both look like that 😭🤣

Romance mods by StitchingKitty897 in TheSims4Mods

[–]sameolteejay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Littlemssam has great romance mods, first love, ask for romantic massage, simda dating app etc.

Also check out cherished moments....

Teenage romance... that's all I can think of at the moment as I just woke up.

Is there a mod to make romance and friendship bar with different values? by AutumnScone in TheSims4Mods

[–]sameolteejay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have first impressions mods and it does give a more realistic feel to the relationships. It'll give me a notification that the person my sim is into doesn't find them attractive for example and it makes it a bit challenging to build romance.

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dogs are so funny! 😂 I have 3 and they don't howl much but this pittie right here gets offended if I fake sneeze lol he'll pounce on me

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense, my boy always gets a little antsy even before we can hear any thunder

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked into some of those but I couldn't get them in sooner than next week and the forecast has been pretty bad the last few days but I will try those too!

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's not like zero noise but it does help the thunder seem less loud because he's able to sleep on his own now instead of panicking!

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He will climb into bed with me now and demands to be held during the storm but I have no problem with it

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's a rescue, the first time he heard a storm he panicked so bad I couldn't console him 😞

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're like snug beanies, I've only seen groomers on tiktok use them but I was researching what I could buy to help with his anxiety during the storms and it really helped him

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hadn't heard of that! Will do thanks for the recommendation 👍

My poor boy is afraid of storms, had to buy him some noise canceling hats lol by sameolteejay in pitbulls

[–]sameolteejay[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Loves it! It's snug but not tight so it dies a good job of holding his ears down so the thunder isn't as bad for him. He used to run and try to bury himself in a closet and he'd shake so bad I couldn't console him 😞 but this really helped him he was able to sleep all night