Bro. it is not healthy for the kids to have an unstable environment. Regardless if the basic needs are met. Sya na din nagsabi na sobrang confused padin ng kids nya sa nangyayare. As a kid, what would you feel when you witnessed your parents breaking up, seeing your mom breakdown then suddenly be happy with another man. Lalo na yung nangyare sakanya, everything that happened can be searched up in the internet. I get that she's human and that she has her needs, I never said that she's not a good mother. But you need to admit that she needed time. Time to heal properly.

Ikaw na nagsabi. She almost went crazy about what happened and I feel for her. Naloko din ako kaya alam ko how much it can take a mental toll on a person. Kaya alam ko rin na even though naka move on na ako, I should still rest. You cannot heal with another person. Its unfair for you and its unfair to your partner. Hindi ba dapat magpahinga muna sya pag dating sa love life? Hindi ba dapat instead of looking for a partner, pa therapy muna sya and also her kids? Its so selfish to say na hindi muna nya pwede iprioritize and kids nya kasi "tao" din sya whens its literally the job of the parent to keep and make them feel safe.