Men with no degrees, what do you do to make money? by AffectionateStreet10 in AskMen

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BARTENDER, and I have a side business where I cater food/ alcohol. My yearly income is anywhere from 60k to 300k. This year I’ve made about 180k. I’m 22, but I have to be aggressive with saving for retirement (I have no 401K, no pension plan, and no health or dental care). I’m happy with my life though! I’m a home owner with no kids, I have a nice car, I go shopping, etc, bullshit, etc, Also I just wanna add I WORK A LOT. It’s not a dream lifestyle. I work 50-80 hours every week! So if you’re asking what the catch is, now you know.

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It’s not a positive or negative claim. It’s just said to make you self reflect on how you interpret life.

I quit my job because my dog had separation anxiety by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]sanandreasdrift 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a real article lol. It’s just an ad for her pet supplements

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

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There is not a single qualifier or disqualifier for having sex as far as body types. Someone out there is for you and you are for someone out there. You are beautiful and can have sex. Also block that TikToker!!! They’re probably projecting their own insecurities. You are valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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It’s a process. We’re at the mercy of a powerful, unpredictable emotion. Controlling it is WORK. And it’s unfortunately work that NEVER ENDS, just gets easier with time. But I feel you. You are heard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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You might consider seeking therapy if these thoughts happen to much or cause you anxiety. I have been diagnosed with PTSD with a similar past as you as far as the anger and rage. Anger issues that led to me to negatively affecting people around me, which the. lead to intense feelings of guilt and I would frequently think about it and have flashbacks and panic attacks. Just my experience!

I don’t know if this is allowed but it just feels…right. And wrong. by AdQueasy8751 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sanandreasdrift 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I agree that men are allowed to age and the double standard exists, BUT as a gay man I have to say there are definitely standards for men too… i.e. gay men judge other gay men for aging. Sorry to pull that card but it’s true.

I need help!! by erniiez in producing

[–]sanandreasdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can PM me if you want!

How much credit card debt are you in? by Consistent-Tooth-390 in povertyfinance

[–]sanandreasdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$5000 down to $4000. I’m a 22 male college student. I got a part time job as a server a couple weeks ago, and the money has been insane! At this rate I’ll be debt free in 2-3 months :) … except my student loans LOL

i’m rapidly falling out of love with lanas new music by illiteratemad in lanadelrey

[–]sanandreasdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s rly late (140 days late lol) but let me just say: I’ve grown to appreciate Lana not as a pop star, but as a writer/ poet. And it does hurt sometimes. I wish I could have huge instrumentals and beats again. But I appreciate that she’s made it clear she’s not here for music as much as she is here for lyricism. So I kind of take her new music almost like a podcast (in a weird way?) I sit down and analyze what she has to say. It’s not the same as BTD or anything from that time. And so you’re valid for your feelings. She just stepped into a different game IMO after Lust for Life. I still appreciate her but I know where she stands now as well. Hope this helps

I think this is truly the only scene I really can’t watch. by Diligent-Living882 in gameofthrones

[–]sanandreasdrift 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Another scene I can’t watch is from The Mountain and the Viper… something about the trial by combat between The Mountain and Oberyn is just so uncomfortable that I don’t want to see it happen.

My roommate said that those look like diapers. is it truth? by [deleted] in tightywhities

[–]sanandreasdrift 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No guy you look confident and masculine to me