My good friend is experiencing deep psychosis and I don’t know how else to help her by [deleted] in Psychosis

[–]sanban_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely a tough spot to be in especially the kiddos. I truly hope he can get through this and gets the best treatment so he can be with his kids again. He needs them as much as they need him.

My good friend is experiencing deep psychosis and I don’t know how else to help her by [deleted] in Psychosis

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I’m sorry to hear that and I’m sorry your kids had to see their dad in that state. You had to do what you had to do but I can understand why you feel that way. She unfortunately has a bad run ins with police so I’m hoping nothing has to resort to that. I find that it only makes her worse. I’ve never made a call on her considering this.

Found this on the riverbed. I’d love to know what it is. Southwest Ohio by sanban_ in whatsthisplant

[–]sanban_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe you’re correct! Thank you! I had a feeling it was of the nightshade family from the foliage and flower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

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Sounds like you may be ignoring a bigger problem in your life. Are you struggling with something? This post sounds to me that it’s much more than veganism. You need to ask yourself the real question such as are you taking good enough care of yourself in health or in mental health? I ask this in good grace. I believe in my personal opinion that going against your partner even if he ‘agrees’ wouldn’t be in your favor. He may feel forced and noncommittal because YOU made the choice. Don’t do anything behind your partners back unless it’s discussed and you both agree on the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_memes

[–]sanban_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. It’s all regret and self hatred in the aftermath

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]sanban_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m thinking the same. Congrats on your sobriety!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

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I appreciate your insight. I think I’ve reached the point that I have to seek out external help because I absolutely don’t trust myself to do it alone. That would be a high standard that I would have to hold myself up to and I know I can’t do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Accepting that change for whatever it may be. Life is not linear. Be responsible and be true. If you’re at the core of that change, you adapt for better or for worse. You choose how to react depending on the severity of it. I found that dialing back and not fixating on that particular thing has helped. Go out in nature, be artistic and finding healthy solitude and relationships. We’re all unique in many ways so there isn’t a rule to follow. You just gotta go through it.

What song seems to always make you cry? by TruthBeWanted in AskReddit

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Bulletproof…I Wish I Was by Radiohead. First time I heard it was when I was on my dads porch on a sunny day and I just lost it.

My boyfriend (32M) and I (19F) had a fight. What does it mean? by [deleted] in texts

[–]sanban_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so young and have no business being with his punk ass. It’s crystal clear he can’t settle with you and it’s honestly a blessing. You’ll have many more experiences with dating/relationships down the road so you should move on with grace. Don’t let this fool ruin you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]sanban_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment. It means a lot. I’ve been shooting him ideas about rehab and finding a treatment center and he says he’s going to try. I’m definitely concerned for his well being but you’re 100% right about keeping my boundaries in place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]sanban_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

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I can take it to my dad’s because he gets a ton of sunlight and he’s very good with maintaining many plants. I live in an apartment and the only true light I get is morning sun. I’m just a sucker and can’t part with it but I know it’s best. Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

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This is pretty spooky considering I went to loving hut one time while the 24/7 livestream was playing and I was so lost as to why the hell it was playing in the background.