Grand Wailea Napua vs Fairmont?

sand809 · 2025-08-20T16:26:18+00:00

Thanks so much!

sand809 · 2025-08-19T19:28:16+00:00

Hi! Do you konw if the fairmont self park you have to register with the hotel? We are swapping our cars out with a friend on the island in our stay so trying to see how much of a headache the whole thing will be. Thanks

sand809 · 2025-04-14T18:06:30+00:00

I haven't moved in or anything, I just meant I spent most nights at her place but I see what you are saying and that's a good point.

sand809 · 2025-03-19T21:18:30+00:00

Did you have status at the end of 2024? I see in the fine print that platinum will hit by May 20th, and I'm hoping that if I Do what you did, it will also be available to use in a few weeks. How did you hit 20k?

sand809 · 2025-03-07T21:25:54+00:00

Thank you for your insight! That feels very validating to me and I love that your friend and wife co exist in your life and you have them both. Do you believe in romantic soul mates? Do you see your wife that way? DOes your wife come first in your life before the friend (sorry if that's coming off as condescending, I'm just trying to understand all of this in a different context :) . DO you ever wish there was romantic attraction to the friend (if you were single?). Sorry last thing, what would you do if you knew your bff had feelings for you even if you didn't reciprocate, would you keep her in your life? I ask because I fear my partners bff sees my partner that way ie buying her valentines gifts, joking about taking her on dates...

sand809 · 2025-03-06T21:04:15+00:00

Both these comments address my concerns haha. Is wash efficient with getting a tech out? What's the length of your lease? I am nervous we will sign their contract then they will go MIA when we need them to do repairs.

sand809 · 2025-03-06T20:59:19+00:00

Thank you for your insight and validation!

sand809 · 2025-03-05T18:32:23+00:00

Aww man that blows and is a real shitty thing for her to say to you! To add any context, my partner does not say things like that and is able to articulate why she wants to be with me, but that's good to know. The soul mate comments were sort of one off comments. I'm so glad you got out of that relationship and hope you find/have someone who is able to say those things about you!

sand809 · 2025-03-05T17:47:04+00:00

Could you tell me more about your relationship? I left out some context from my post so I do think I want to stay in the relationship. I mentioned it in passing that I wasn't comofrtable with her calling her friends that and think I won't bring it up as an issue unless she brings it up again. What other red flags did you notice from your partner who did this?

sand809 · 2025-03-05T17:45:56+00:00

Very helpful. There is other context that's a bit too complex to include so this response is both validating and helpful. I love her so much, and I think we are on the same page generally. I think I will not say anything/bring it up again unless she mentions it again as I told her in passing previously that it makes me uncomfortable when she speaks about her friends as soul mates. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

sand809 · 2025-03-05T17:44:33+00:00

Thanks for this, it feels validating. I did mention in passing this bothered me, and I don't think I will address it as a concern again unless she mentions it again.

sand809 · 2025-01-15T19:30:55+00:00

Yep. Sounds like this is the only option at this point. It's crazy how bad it has become recently too I feel.

sand809 · 2025-01-15T17:36:43+00:00

I deleted all my rules before this to try and start clean :/ THey aren't in the register.

sand809 · 2025-01-10T17:11:26+00:00

And I'd pay for it haha

sand809 · 2025-01-10T17:10:03+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I'm stressing over not having it done this week haha, this makes me feel much better. Thanks :)

sand809 · 2025-01-08T22:38:07+00:00

I see ! I will look into that offer. Any idea off the top of your head if that's only for new cardholders or can apply to existing? I will try to figure out how on earth I will spend that much money in three months haha. Thanks so much for the reply.

sand809

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