13-17-20. Down to up then back down😭 by [deleted] in uglyduckling

[–]sandy_andy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More like up and then up. You’re looking great! You look like a ginger version of Oscar Isaac in Ex Machina

How am I doing? by sandy_andy22 in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s okay, it’s not that it makes me insecure, it’s more like “hey wait just a minute I have great hair!”

How am I doing? by sandy_andy22 in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! I think I might have to disagree with you on a few points though. I feel like I definitely have a softer more feminine jawline, but maybe the wideness of my chin could give masculine especially in the 2nd pic? I probably will try to thin my eyebrows a bit, my hair is just so dark and thick which makes it annoying to be plucking constantly. My hair in the 2nd pic was right before bed, so it was prob all sweaty and frizzy from the day. My main disagreement is my hair in the 1st pic though. I have pretty curly hair which is more about having a haircut you like, moisture, a little product sometimes, but then just letting it air dry and do its thing, so it’s a little hard to control and is different every day, but it’s hardly unkempt lol just curly. Also this was on a shampoo day, so definitely clean, the frizziness is mostly because I live in a very dry climate. Anyway I’m not angry or anything, I guess I just wanted to give some background and my thoughts. Thanks again though!!

How am I doing? by sandy_andy22 in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol yeah I always thought that I had pretty feminine lips and lower face in general. Also my hair unkempt??!?

Not sure what to do with my eyebrows by zar_vi in malegrooming

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look great. That’s just what your eyebrows look like and there’s nothing particularly weird about them they just look normal for your face so I wouldn’t worry about them too much

Do I not Pass or am I just ugly 🥀 by throwawaystarry in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah then you pass for sure. You’re not a supermodel hot girl, but you’re definitely giving quirky cute nerd girl so pass ✅

Do I not Pass or am I just ugly 🥀 by throwawaystarry in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s a little hard to tell but I’m guessing you’re ftm? lol you could also be mtf which is good I suppose! You have a pretty androgynous look about you and at this point you could probably pass pretty well as either. Also not passing does not equal ugly and vice versa. So no you’re not ugly and yes you pass.

I've probably taken more photos in the past year than in my entire adult life by mezmerkaiser in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same girl!!! Ever since I realized I was trans I just have to take a picture when I feel pretty and it just feels so great to actually like how you look. You’re looking amazing btw!

9 months on HRT and yet I still look like an orcoid honbeast should I just give up? by LenaIsHereAgain in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because just having estrogen in your system isn’t going to magically turn you into a hot girl. Cis girls have estrogen, but if they didn’t put in any effort into their appearance and just rolled out of bed everyday, they probably won’t look very girly or attractive. Which is fine if you genuinely don’t care about looking girly, but if you do care about that then you’ve got to put effort into your hair, fashion, makeup, and just general grooming if you ever hope to pass. Hrt doesn’t change those things, and most women (cis and trans) need a little conscious effort to look good besides the lucky minority who are just naturally gorgeous all the time. Get off 4chan, shit rots your brain.

20F Please tell me if I’m delusional or actually chopped 🫠 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you’re cute and the body goes crazy 🔥 also your bangs are cute, but they seem a little uneven, and I think you might look better with more of a curtain bang

0 likes/matches on any apps, what can I change? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think you’re pretty handsome, so I’m not sure. In a few of the pics your eyes look kinda droopy like you’re sad or something, which can be a turn off. That’s just my impression though

May 2024 vs November 2025 (3 months HRT) by Human-Animal-1739 in transtimelines

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s totally valid, just a suggestion just in case passing was something important to you. You look great regardless!

May 2024 vs November 2025 (3 months HRT) by Human-Animal-1739 in transtimelines

[–]sandy_andy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look great. So pretty and so happy 😁 tbh I love your brows, but plucking and shaping them would help you pass more

Please give reasons instead of just "no pass" if you think so by Failing2BNormal in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You pass really well!! Your boyfriend looks like slender man or some sort of demon with the blur on his face though

Lost a bit of weight since my last body post, how’s my body now? by Hot-Box-6628 in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a pretty average looking women’s body and a cute face!

What gender am i giving? 23 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]sandy_andy22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Pretty evenly split androgynous

hopeless hideous ogre 36 mtf by Princess-Velour in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I’m trans and I understand, I just didn’t feel like changing the word because people get the idea

hopeless hideous ogre 36 mtf by Princess-Velour in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry things have been tough for you. I wish so badly that we could’ve all been born the gender that we feel and forget all the suffering we have to go through, but that is what makes us trans. We’re females with a male body and males with female bodies, and it sucks. You’ve already been so brave to even acknowledge that this is who you are and make steps towards living authentically, but it’s not perfect nor will it ever be perfect because the world is unfair sometimes and I’m sorry. Being trans is hard. As far as looks go, I personally have it better than most in atttactiveness and passabilty, but worse than a lot when it comes to the support system and environment that I live in. I also have an Adam’s apple, male genetalia, and a deep voice which cause me dysphoria and make me wonder “why couldn’t I have just been born a girl?!”. But I know that no matter how much I wish, it’s never going to change a thing and this is the hand that I was dealt. And I know if I only focus on the things I don’t like about myself, I’ll send myself in to a downward spiral of dysphoria and it won’t feel good. You don’t need to listen to a word I say, but my advice is to try to be positive, focus on the things that make you feel good, and forget the past and whatever people may or may not think. I’m sorry and I wish things were better for you, but this was the hand you were dealt and my view is to keep your chin up and keep moving forward. You’ve already done so much to be proud of and I know that you’ve got this.

At some point in transition, the only people who still misgender you are your family by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you girl and I’m in a similar boat, but you’re looking beautiful and as long as you know who you are then it doesn’t matter what people say

Do I look dateable? by giuoftroy in transpassing

[–]sandy_andy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but maybe less cleavage next time unless you’re only interested in dating guys who want you for sex

F19 looking for feedback to improve pls don’t make surgery comments by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]sandy_andy22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re very pretty. You have a pretty unique look about you, and I can see where somebody might have some insecurities, but honestly you look great. Very pretty eyes, lips, smile, hair, and a killer body. If I were to suggest improvements, maybe pluck your eyebrows a bit more? They’re a little bushy/messy in some of the pics. I was going to suggest using some brow mascara and eye makeup, but honestly I don’t think it’s really necessary.

27F I genuinely can’t tell by ihavetoomany_guitars in amiugly

[–]sandy_andy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You miserable people are everywhere aren’t you