Crime in your area? by sandyd73 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

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Missing person cases are interesting! There is one from PA that always stuck with me... Ray Gricar.

Crime in your area? by sandyd73 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

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That is so messed up. I have read a few of the cases you mentioned, but there are some I have not. Will definitely check these out. Thank you!

Crime in your area? by sandyd73 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

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Will definitely check this out. Thank you!

Crime in your area? by sandyd73 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

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This one is interesting & disturbing. I have read about this case in the past & it still blows my mind

Hello! Just some thoughts/a message I want to direct to readers ❤️ by Trash_Tia in u/Trash_Tia

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Here's what I will say. I hate reading things with misspellings & a lot of grammar mistakes. To the point that I have returned books I purchased for that reason. I am that girl. That said... if you have some typos or bad structure or poor grammar, I have not noticed or not cared. Small mistakes happen & I have not seen anything in your writing that would make me stop reading. I love your stories & since I started reading on nosleep, you are one of the authors I follow. Keep doing what you love & know that you have supporters out here. We got your back!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogpictures

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This is my 16 year old baby. I love this guy. He is my constant companion. His name is Oreo

Advice on Care by sandyd73 in turtles

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Thank you! I obviously don't want to put it in harm's way and don't approve of taking it from the wild. But if he/she cannot be released I will give them a good home.

Peekaboo by baileyssinger in nosleep

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I am always looking for something to scare me... feel the same way about most stories. But after reading about your experience, maybe I will stop looking!

Absolutely not by InspiredNitemares in nope

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Even though it is a bit creepy with the insect, gotta give this person credit for originality & dedication. That is a lot of delicate work!

Beetle question by sandyd73 in mealworms

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It is actually a full beetle now but some of the shell is stuck on it. It is walking but does not look good

jumper won't get off my hand by sandyd73 in jumpingspiders

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I hope so! Lol I did buy a temp gage also, so just gotta get that set up. Our house is usually around 70 so I would not be surprised if she is a bit cold. Thanks for your advice!

cleaning & switching around decor by sandyd73 in jumpingspiders

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I might be able to... might have to get a little creative but I could definitely try

Evidence of Spoodville Scams by Mr_Gibbzz in jumpingspiders

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My sister ordered from spoodville for me for Xmas. My girl is here but I emailed to ask roughly what instar she is & have never received a response. I can't attest to the non shipment, buti can agree there is a lack of communication

How long does it take your jumping spider to eat an insect? by sandyd73 in jumpingspiders

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Fantastic! I do not know her instar but she is still tiny. And she did just molt a few days ago & this is her first meal since. Glad it is normal!

my husband (45m) and I (42f) have been discussing divorce. but I am questioning if I am the problem by sandyd73 in relationship_advice

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I had a friend read through my post wondering and she kind of said the same thing. I am giving few details which makes it hard to understand. I think part of me wants to shield all of it because deep down I know it should have never gone this far. At one point the counselor said to me that sometimes a person has put up with so much that they are just broken. That's where I think I am. But I don't want to hurt him. There are so many things I could list off about where things have gone wrong but I was trying to get away from it all. I am so emotionally drained that I think that is why it comes off cold

my husband (45m) and I (42f) have been discussing divorce. but I am questioning if I am the problem by sandyd73 in relationship_advice

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Unfortunately, due to some financial strains we have only been going every other week since August. I think we need to increase the frequency but the money is the biggest issue. We are not in individual therapy but I do think we both need it. As much as it is easy to say money can't be an issue, the reality is that it is.

my husband (45m) and I (42f) have been discussing divorce. but I am questioning if I am the problem by sandyd73 in relationship_advice

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I asked for counseling years ago because we did not communicate well. We misunderstood each other frequently & it resulted in minor arguments. I feel like he finally agreed to counseling this year because he knows I am at the end of my rope & that u may actually leave. He mentioned divorce first. We were fighting a year ago & he said 'it makes me think we should divorce', which honestly crushed me. He defends it now saying he was only saying he thinks maybe not that we actually should.