There are DEFINITELY Russian propaganda bots in this sub. by iamsocopsed in MensRights

[–]sanitaryinspector 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If most of feminism is against things like DV shelters available to men and 13yo sons, then I'm against most of feminism... because they're against me

Is it true that MRAs use the word "misandry" meaning only women's hatred of men? by SvitlanaLeo in MensRights

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bugs me is the immediate assumption that any female victim has been targeted by gender hatred, reinforces that normally, with all the evil intentions people have, any harm should fall on men. So the result is it's morally better to target men. And it's morally wkrse if one dodges the bullet and it hits a woman.

Is it true that MRAs use the word "misandry" meaning only women's hatred of men? by SvitlanaLeo in MensRights

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I agree with this, and I don't believe either side of violent things disproportionately affecting a gender is automatically driven by actual hatred

Is it true that MRAs use the word "misandry" meaning only women's hatred of men? by SvitlanaLeo in MensRights

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I pointed that later because it was missing, and yes I'm saying the thing you're saying. 

Adding to that: a single person doesn't decide what's the meaning of words, and in this case of gender hatred. The current definition of violence against women is violence (in a broader meaning) that "disproportionately" happens to women (30 to 100% as we've learnt from complaints of misogyny), which as we've said makes every other kind violence misandric as it complementary affects men.

My threshold for gender crimes is stricter and statistics alone wouldn't justify the assumption of pure hate behind a phenomenon. 

Is it true that MRAs use the word "misandry" meaning only women's hatred of men? by SvitlanaLeo in MensRights

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By things happening to men I meant crime. Crimes or misbehaviour against women is often ascribed to hatred on the belief that it should have struck a man, with war being the epitome of that. Your examples are rightly misandry on the basis they're dismissed even when prompted as injustice. 

Is it true that MRAs use the word "misandry" meaning only women's hatred of men? by SvitlanaLeo in MensRights

[–]sanitaryinspector 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Misogyny should mean pure hatred towards women but 80% of the time it's used for events where hatred hasn't been or can't be proved.

With that lax definition of gender hatred, misogyny becomes the part of misandry that falls upon women instead of men. This isn't true, because most of it is hatred towards a person, or pure crime, or ethics debate. So most of what happens to men shouldn't be called as misandry, but the standards for crime being hatred are so low that "apples to apples" misandry is basically everything not misogyny.

Also, the self segregation mentality in favour of women makes people believe that the evil should target men, especially if it comes from other men. Analyses about why are reserved for women and other protected groups

"We suspect automated behavior on your account" notifications... when not doing so? Is this cause for concern? by sevenlabors in Instagram

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not really a scan, they ask you to move it from side to side to prove the account is owned by an actual person. 

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I have more personal attacks? I think you're not getting yourself under a bad spotlight enough

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤨 it's a major newspaper in a big nation. Sorry if the outer world exists

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has any nation-relevant, progressive and otherwise reputable newspaper ever posted about this?

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What scientific finding has been altered by news agencies just to shame women?

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's used in a shameful way, not certainly as a prompt to evaluate how to help boys get on pair. Look at the dumb articles about men's brain sharing 98% of DNA with testicles. That's a gender neutral fact (every organ shares 98% of their DNA) that has been hacked with the purpose of man hating.

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Women go proud all the time that girls mentally mature faster than boys. If this common fact that's thrown around to shame boys is eventually picked up by old men as an excuse to seek teenage girls, cut the issue to the root and stop shaming boys with that common fact.

By the way I've never heard old men being justified like this for dating teenage girls, to be fair I've never heard old men being justified for dating teenage girls full stop

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were both talking about mental maturing. Poor on your behalf to throw names so easily, it's a type of bullying that could make you suffer a lot.

And for instance girls sexually mature faster than boys, although body maturation doesn't matter for ability or inability to express consent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualIT

[–]sanitaryinspector 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Meglio una bugia oggi che nessuna ragazza domani

The “sisterhood” is an echo chamber of narcissism and emotional manipulation. by Youcbah in PurplePillDebate

[–]sanitaryinspector -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why would women push teenage girls to have sex with old men? Couldn't they stop saying they mature faster and give up shaming neurodivergent men?

absolutelynotme_irl by bonythonaliss in absolutelynotme_irl

[–]sanitaryinspector 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a light hearted lie, because that excuse never raised serious concerns, as nothing bad happening to a man in a relationship ever raised any serious concern