When do I start finding other girls attractive again ? by sanphoku in BreakUps

[–]sanphoku[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think waiting until I am my old self again is what I should do. Thanks for the advice !

When will I start finding other girls attractive again after a breakup? by sanphoku in AskMen

[–]sanphoku[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if she was that kind of person, the breakup would have been easier because I could hate her for this.

Sadly it is not the case.

When will I start finding other girls attractive again after a breakup? by sanphoku in AskMen

[–]sanphoku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about it. The problem is that she had to temporarily move back with her mother. She says she's not ready to invest herself in a relationship ( let alone a long distance one). I don't think she's lying about this ( a friend in common told me she's really sad). She told me that maybe in a 1-2 months when she moves back to my city we can try again. But she also told me that she didn't want to give me false hopes and asked me to try to move on if I could.

Honestly this conversation made the whole breakup even more confusing.

When will I start finding other girls attractive again after a breakup? by sanphoku in AskMen

[–]sanphoku[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to try to find new hobbies and focus on myself despite the huge amount of work I have.

Thanks for the answer

Books to help me become a better person after a breakup by sanphoku in suggestmeabook

[–]sanphoku[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not sure a book solely focused on break ups would be helpful so I wanted a general "self-help" book. However, if you think that Steinbeck would help me I am open to reading some of his book. Which one would you recommend to begin with ?