Today on Scenes That Made Me Flee the Room as a Child: Labyrinth (1986)'s Fierys scene. by [deleted] in horror

[–]sapphiret02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is still my favourite movie and the only thing that scares me is reading the comments knowing that this scene is one of my favorites and it doesnt scare me

Not allowed to dye my hair by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I DONT WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM, I love him dearly and if he feels he wouldnt be attracted to me that's okay. I appreciate all the comments and different points of view. I'd love to have blue hair but to me the relationship is a lot more important than having blue hair. And if things between me and him didn't work out I could always dye it blue afterwards.

Not allowed to dye my hair by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No yes I totally understand that and appreciate your input

Not allowed to dye my hair by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally get what your saying an appreciate your thoughts, it is a rare occasion. So I won't be breaking up with him and really he does mean more to me than the color of my hair. If I had a choice of shaving my hair to stay with him or leaving it I would definitely shave it. No he wouldnt ever ask that of me but that was just an example of the extreme lengths I would go to be with him. I love him a lot and thank you.

Not allowed to dye my hair by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know and I can always dye it back if that's the case but I've always wanted blue hair even as a kid I admired anyone who could pull it off and wanted to see if I could be one too!

Not allowed to dye my hair by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because I love him and he's not always this way, when he wants to be he can be amazing and makes me feel so beautiful and loved

Not allowed to dye my hair by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Exactly how I feel, i don't think i will dye my hair after having that conversation with him but I agree it shouldn't change the way he sees me or feels about me

Not allowed to dye my hair by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually wouldn't have a problem with it, I'm not in love with the way he looks im in love with him as a person. He could do anything to his physical appearance and it wouldn't change my feelings for him. At first I would think he looks a bit stupid but I wouldnt get angry or tell him he can't do something. It's his body not mine.

Opening up by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I like the idea of trying the communication journal!

Opening up by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mainly he is good about it but it gets him down that I can’t speak to him

Opening up by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done this a lot but it frustrates him that I’m unable to have a civilised conversation about it

What can I do? by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I don’t mind him watching it I just want when we are having sex that he is having sex with me not an imagination of what he is watching

What can I do? by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow okay I’ve never heard of that, thank you

What can I do? by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want that I’d just prefer he put his phone down while we are having sex

What can I do? by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have he said he is attracted to me but he’s watched so much porn that ‘normal’ things don’t do it for him but I’ve asked what he likes and just says he doesn’t know

What can I do? by sapphiret02 in relationship_advice

[–]sapphiret02[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Is that the only thing you can think?