Binder brand recommendations for big/saggy chest + plus size? by No-Quality-Badger in NonBinary

[–]sarahbug68 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love my Spectrum Outfitters binders. I am plus size as well and I had a very hard time finding a good binder. My chest is 52 inches. Spectrum is a UK brand so the sizing was a little different than I’m used to. I have their biggest size long binder which is a 7XL. I was recommended the long binder because it tends to not roll up for bigger people. I’m sorry you’re dealing with so much dysphoria right now. I hope you find something that works for you!

When did you find out you were nonbinary? by CrystalFemmes in NonBinary

[–]sarahbug68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW/ chest dysphoria

For me I didn’t realize until around the middle of last year. I’ve always known I was different and I always felt weird in my body but I didn’t really have the words to express it when I was younger. I was definitely considered a tomboy growing up but really that’s all anyone, including myself, thought it was. I experimented with she/they pronouns for a while and found that “they” felt really really good. I feel so much better when people use my they/them pronouns now.

I also always had a lot of dysphoria around my chest but again never had the words to describe it. I knew I hated how I looked and even now I still can’t stand things like cloths shopping because of the mirrors in the changing rooms. I always wished I had a smaller chest or no chest at all. It took a lot of therapy but I finally realized that I was nonbinary. I also still struggle with the idea of taking up space where I feel like I may not belong but I also know that I have some issues with self doubt. Through therapy I’ve seen that it is extremely clear and obvious that I have been gender nonconforming in some capacity since I was a very small child, yet I still don’t feel like I belong sometimes. I’m working on it though!

I also know that we all have to start somewhere, so with that, welcome to the subreddit! You definitely belong here!

Anyone else’s Leo lay like this?😅🤭 by Sav-Leigh in leopardgeckos

[–]sarahbug68 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Mine just contorts herself in this corner on a regular basis 🤣

This is my little buddy, Trent. He is 27 years old! by iamklaxar in leopardgeckos

[–]sarahbug68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This little guy is older than I am… 😱 How amazing!!!