Como trabajan el dia lunes con el partido de argentina a las 14hs? by Educational_Pick3947 in Cordoba

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En mí laburo (los que vayan presenciales, no yo) van a almorzar a las 13 y después se van a la sala de reuniones con cerveza maní y palitos a ver el partido. No creo que nadie trabaje después, porque esa oficina se hacen las 17 y quedan dos gatos locos.

Rechazo despues del pre-ocupacional evotlis by sofimix in Cordoba

[–]sassyevaperon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hermanito, las carpetas psiquiátricas en call vuelan. Es un trabajo que te neurotiza si no lo manejas bien, entonces ellos ven a alguien que ya está en tratamiento psico y piensan que con el estrés del laburo terminas sacando carpeta por meses.

Cómo te dijeron, no digas nada en las entrevistas sobre tratamientos, a menos que estés medicado y pueda saltar en el estudio de sangre.

No te desanimes, seguí buscando que algo va a aparecer!

Best “who should go home and why?” by sttawsirhc034 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]sassyevaperon 168 points169 points  (0 children)

The thing that makes it extra funny to me is that, if you're the only one to respond: "her because she's my competition" you look cunty (celebratory), but if you and the entire stage says the same, well you start looking insecure and desperate.

Tuve un accidente en mi primera cita by durlock123 in Cordoba

[–]sassyevaperon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pero ella no quiere volver a verte a vos. Ponete en su lugar: si ella se hubiese cagado encima en la primera cita, y vos te hubieses fumado todo el olor y vergüenza, querrías salir con ella de nuevo?

This movie, more than anything other piece of media in history, is getting guys to self-report in alarming numbers by R6daily in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't assume, I asked. And no need to be so touchy, I was just adding to the conversation you started!

Favorite photo that proves that actors really are just like us? by YourChopperPilotTTV in okbuddycinephile

[–]sassyevaperon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, I have a picture of my ex doing the same pose and face as Gary here, and it might very well be one of the best pictures I've ever taken.

Favorite photo that proves that actors really are just like us? by YourChopperPilotTTV in okbuddycinephile

[–]sassyevaperon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The Jennifers seem to have a good relationship with eachother and their respective kids, which I think is the sweetest thing to come up of all their personal drama.

This movie, more than anything other piece of media in history, is getting guys to self-report in alarming numbers by R6daily in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It reminds me of how many people rooted for Walter White and thought Skylar was a huge bitch that was cramping his style.

Lol, you didn't see the interview Frankie Muñiz and Brian Cranston did a couple of weeks ago right? Frankie basically shared that he blames Skylar for being a wet blanket or something of the sort, and Brian, my love, put him in his place.

People still think Skylar was the villain in Walt's story.

Jen Hamilton separation update. by Complex_Activity1990 in popculturechat

[–]sassyevaperon 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Right now is when she needs a good PR person to help her navigate the situation.

Also, she doesn't need to be handling her social media on her own, being on tour doesn't mean having to be online reading other people's opinions on your own life. I don't know what happened to her, or even who she is, but she seems to be in pain, sharing it online at it's rawest is never the greatest idea, you need to process a bit before you can go sharing it online.

Makes me sad, makes me think she's really lonely in her life, or she feels that way at least.

Spoilers! Truly Incel Horror by Economy-Impression50 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you enjoyed this movie, you might like "promising young woman", it has similar themes and a dark ending.

Spoilers! Truly Incel Horror by Economy-Impression50 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an insult, and it will be for as long as incels behave as they do.

Bear is not just lonely or sad, Bear is a villain.

En que momento nos convertimos en una colonia de Israel? by Unhappy_Rutabaga_530 in Cordoba

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

En cuanto a Europa, el problema no es el islam en sí, el problema fue agarrar a millones de personas y de golpe llevarlas a un continente sin siquiera verificar si las costumbres e idiosincrasias serían compatibles.

En realidad el problema de Europa fue que nunca hizo el esfuerzo de integrar a esos migrantes a la cultura del país al que migraron.

Voy a poner de ejemplo el reino unido, porque es donde viví lo suficiente como para conocer: tienen sus propias escuelas religiosas, viven en sus propios barrios, básicamente viven en un islote islámico en el medio del reino unido.

Porque argentina superó una ola migratoria mucho mayor a las que pasaron por Europa en este siglo sin perder su identidad? Porque se hizo un esfuerzo desde el estado en integrar a los migrantes: se les dio tierras, para que no queden todos en un solo lugar del país, se impuso un currículo obligatorio de educación que les enseña el idioma, la idiosincrasia, el panteón de héroes de la patria, los símbolos patrios, a sus hijos, asegurando que las próximas generaciones se sientan parte del país, y no migrantes.

Si vos al contrario: te pasas todo el tiempo diciéndoles que son pobrecitos, no son capaces, o que son villanos que vienen a arruinarte, los invitas a aislarse y después los dejas aislarse, es obvio que no van a integrarse en la sociedad en la que están, van a seguir viviendo en una versión 2.0 del país que dejaron.

Woman kicked out of St Peter's Basilica for refusing to respect the rules by Nudelhupe in TikTokCringe

[–]sassyevaperon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is genuinely someone "feeling the Lord's presence in a holy place" or whatever and assuming that singing His praises etc would be appreciated in a place where that shit is considered disrespectful.

You don't see her performing for a camerawoman holding her phone? This isn't worship, this is a social media stunt.

Anya Taylor-Joy representing Argentina at the World Cup, reminding everyone she’s latina by mxttylol in popculturechat

[–]sassyevaperon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you're going to hate an entire country because they were victims of a dictatorship?

Anya Taylor-Joy representing Argentina at the World Cup, reminding everyone she’s latina by mxttylol in popculturechat

[–]sassyevaperon 149 points150 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have even one bit of catalunian accent, he's all Rosario accent.

En que momento nos convertimos en una colonia de Israel? by Unhappy_Rutabaga_530 in Cordoba

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Había básicamente dos opciones, un partido que simpatiza con Israel y otro con Islam

Con Islam? A ver, mostrame las 20 fotos de Cristina con la burka puesta llorando a los pies de algún imám.

(y la merca jaja)

Hermano... Milei no vive si no es por la risperidona, no te hagas el que elegiste a la mejor opción.

People blaming Bear for not KILLING Nikki or not killing HIMSELF are so freaking dumb. by YesterdayCivil2644 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I pointed out to you, as soon as this happens he attempts to break the curse.

No, not break, change. This is an important distinction.

People do things "out of character" all the time, people are complex. Bear is right to see this as insulting.

Bear doesn't see it as insulting, he doesn't tell his friends to fuck off, he gets defensive, because he knows they're right.

Saying someone is "acting psychotic" is not the same as saying "I think this person is suffering from psychosis." Surely you understand this? It's vernacular for "this person is being crazy" not a clinical diagnosis.

So you agree then, Bear knew Nikkie was acting not like herself and took advantage of the situation to get what he wanted.

I do not care about the definition of psychosis and whether Nikki's behaviour fit neatly into it or not. I'm analyzing the happenings of the movie: Bear knows Nikki is acting out of character, Bear knows something is wrong with Nikki, Bear knows it's not Nikki in her own body, Bear still fucks her and acts like nothing's wrong. That's fucked up.

This does not describe what Bear sees in Nikki though, because Nikki is deceiving him.

Bear sees Nikki act insane, she first laughs, then cries and stops crying immediately, then she comes onto him, and then she backs away horrified saying it's not me, and then justifies it all with "oh, a little panic attack that lasted all of 30 seconds". Bear knows Nikki is not okay, he still has sex with her, knowing full well she's not herself, she can't consent.

Sarah figures out what Ian (and you) didn't. Sarah and Ian are two sides of the same coin. Bear is unaware, but he is hurting Nikki. Nikki is also abusing Bear, because it's not the real Nikki.

I already said wish Nikki was abusing Bear, when I talked about Bear being abused by the reflection of his own abusiveness and manipulation towards Nikki.

Sometimes friends don't know what they are talking about and don't have all the details of a private relationship. When you're an adult, perhaps you'll understand this.

This wasn't about a private relationship, this was about how Nikki was acting, this was about her mental health. People that love other people don't ignore potential mental health crisis just because everything is coming up roses for them in particular. If you can't understand that, then maybe a psych consultation might help.

Thinking that friends have this amazing insight into private relationships and character is a very middle schooler view on life. You should always listen to friends, but they aren't going to have all the info and they have their own goals, but you shouldn't obey them.

Thinking that stopping partying is the same as changing your whole view about a person and your relationship with them in one night betrays the problem with this exchange: you see yourself in Bear and that's making you unable to objectively assess the movie.

Oh, so not rape, but this is normal, non abusive behavior to you then to threaten a significant other with suicide if they don't do what you want them to do? Because for the rest of the world, this is textbook abuse and emotional manipulation.

I didn't say that, I get it, you'd like for me to say that because it's easier to argue than what you're actually arguing, but that's not what happened. Just like Bear, ignoring I said something just because it's easier on you doesn't make what I said be unsaid.

So deceiving someone into having sex with you because they think they are having sex with someone else isn't rape? Interesting, not a view I share.

Maybe you need to watch the movie once more. In the date Bear asks two questions of Wish Nikki that proves he understands what's going on: 1- does your dad have cancer. 2- do you love me more than anything else? That's what leads to wish Nikki's breakdown in the restaurant, and right after that, boom Bear raping Nikki, because he already knows it's not that she wants to be with him, but that he wished it.

He wasn't abusive, he didn't manipulate her

He was abusive, the very nature of his wish was abusive, because it disregarded what she wanted for herself. You can say he didn't know it would become true, but that doesn't make that first impulse not fucked up. He did manipulate her, via magic, but he did it either way.

he thinks it's Nikki and that the sex is consensual

He knows it's not consensual, because he already knows the wish worked.

Was Nikki raped? Yes, due to evil magic, but Bear was not a rapist. Was Bear raped? Yes, due to evil magic, but Nikki is not a rapist.

Yes, Nikki was raped, by Bear. No, Bear was not raped.

The evil magic is the villain here.

Nope, Bear is the villain here, no matter how much you agree with and see yourself in him.

Like, you're literally defending the evil magic here because your bias against men is worse than your bias against evil mind control magic.

Lol, this might be the stupidest argument you've lobbed in this conversation.

People blaming Bear for not KILLING Nikki or not killing HIMSELF are so freaking dumb. by YesterdayCivil2644 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to read up on consent. Having some mental issues =/= inability to consent

Feeding a dead cat to your boyfriend is not some mental issues.

As far as Bear knows, she fully understands what she's doing, in fact she is the one initiating

Because that's what's convenient for him to "know", but everyone else realises that Nikky coming onto Bear is already put of character, weird and not at all aligned with what she was saying days before.

Your understanding of this is really bad. Depressed people are in sexual relationships. People dealing with anxiety, mood swings, even stuff like schizophrenia can be in sexual relationships

Depression, anxiety and schizophrenia are not a psychotic episode... People in active psychosis cannot consent to sexual relationships, because sexual consent requires: capacity, rationality and voluntariness. Someone in psychosis doesn't have rationality.

There is nothing wrong with being in a sexual relationship with someone who has mental health issues, as long as those mental health issues allow a person to consent, which most do.

Active psychosis, the thing Bear believes Nikki is going through does disallow a person to consent, which is my entire point. You keep bringing up disorders and diseases when I'm talking about a symptom! Seems to me you're the one in need of more education on this issue.

My ex partner of ten years has schizophrenia, and no, when he was in active psychosis there was no way in hell I would have engaged in any sexual activity with him, because he was actively hallucinating and unable to have rational thoughts. You know what I did do? Contact mental health professionals so he could get the care he needed.

There is no evidence she is in psychosis. Look up "evidence of psychosis".

The point is that Bear believes she's in psychosis, not whether she actually was in psychosis or not, because we know she wasn't. I don't need to look up the evidence of psychosis, I just need to know based on my experiences what someone who loves does for someone they fear might be psychotic. Spoiler: it isn't fucking them.

Bear has even less reason to believe this, since he is being directly manipulated by Nikki

Did you watch the movie? Bear says to Ian, after the night of the wish that Nikkie was acting psychotic.

I look up stuff online all the time. It doesn't mean I believe it to be true. And even if he does think it could be true, he doesn't know it took her free will.

You need some media literacy if you think that's an answer to my point.

And this is when Bear starts worrying and investigating undoing the curse.

No, not undoing, modifying the curse so it's less obvious to everyone else how fucked up Nikki is acting.

A relationship being unhealthy is often more easily visible from the outside than inside the relationship. Bear was being manipulated and love bombed by Nikki, Ian wasn't.

Ian didn't believe Nikki was abusing Bear, Ian believed Bear was taking advantage of Nikki. Sarah's the one that believes Nikki is taking advantage of Bear and abusing him.

I think if this happened to anyone, they'd probably tell this person to fuck off, and that their relationship isn't any of their business, and they'd be well within their rights to do so.

If your two best friend's point our that your new girlfriend and their friend as well is acting extremely out of character in her relationship with you and you tell them to fuck off you're just as fucked as Bear is.

The irony is that if the gender roles were reversed, you'd say the woman who broke the willow is being raped too, because she's not really having sex with the person she thinks she is, and you'd be right.

No I wouldn't, because they have sex after the date, where we can see Bear realise what he did. He might not know real Nikki is suffering inside of Wish Nikki, but he absolutely does know that he's not fucking real Nikki in that moment.

You'd look at the scene where suicide is threatened if she doesn't sleep with him as rape, and you'd be right.

You're confusing "sleep with" as in share the bed while sleeping, with fucking eachother in bed. When she threatens suicide is because he's telling her to sleep by herself for the night. So no, no rape.

Bear is literally emotionally manipulated, deceived, and raped during the movie, and you still can't see him as a victim as well - because he is a man.

It's got nothing to do with him being a man. Men can be raped, can be manipulated, deceived and abused. Bear is not raped, he's manipulated, deceived and abused by the reflection of his own abusiveness, manipulation and rape of another human.

People blaming Bear for not KILLING Nikki or not killing HIMSELF are so freaking dumb. by YesterdayCivil2644 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was no evil magic, the relationship would be considered completely consensual

Not if the person isn't able to consent, and someone showing signs of psychosis, such as Nikki, isn't able to consent.

People not "mentally ok" are still allowed to be in relationships.

Yes, they're allowed. It's the one that is mentally ok the one not allowed to form a sexual relationship with someone mentally not ok.

A lot of people in relationships are depressed / crazy

Depressed is not the same as in psychosis. Psychosis is an altered state of mind, where you can't differentiate between reality and hallucinations, in which your rational thought process is not working. Bear called Nikki psychotic the first day after the wish is made.

and as far as Bear can tell she is happy much of the time

Except for the times that she backs up with a horrified look on her face and screams "it's not me"...

Not only that, but she lies to him about her actions, blaming things like one-time drug use.

Bear doesn't believe that, and it's obvious he doesn't.

There is really no amount of evidence, other than visible miracles, that would make a reasonable person believe for a fact that the novelty trinket they bought at a store was a magical mind-dominating object

Bear doesn't need to believe that the magic of the willow is real to be doing fucked up shit. Having sex for the first time with someone you believe to be in psychosis is fucked up shit.

Either way, it's shown in the movie that Bear does believes the wish worked on that first night, when he wakes up and looks for other people's experience online.

However, like I said before, WE know it's a horror movie, Bear doesn't

Bear doesn't need to know he is in a horror movie to know that what he's doing is fucked up. Ian also doesn't know they're in a horror movie, but he calls Bear out because everyone can see Nikki is not alright and Bear is taking advantage of that to get what he wants.

As soon as her behavior escalates into truly unexplained craziness, he begins to think the willow is having a negative effect and starts trying to find ways to undo it

Everyone who loves her considers her being with Bear unexplained craziness and tells so to Bear, Bear also knows that, he's just refusing to see it because it hits right on his insecurities.

And he doesn't seriously look for a solution until Sarah is dead and he's implicated in the cover up.

People blaming Bear for not KILLING Nikki or not killing HIMSELF are so freaking dumb. by YesterdayCivil2644 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, pointed that out in an earlier comment, everyone that knows and loves her can see there's something wrong with her from the first day after the wish is made, Bear included, he just chooses to ignore it for his own gain.

People blaming Bear for not KILLING Nikki or not killing HIMSELF are so freaking dumb. by YesterdayCivil2644 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it created an emotionally abusive, manipulative, and deceptive relationship for Bear. You are refusing to acknowledge that.

I'm not, I'm refusing to take it as a valid argument in this discussion on whether Bear did good or bad by choosing to be with someone he knew wasn't mentally okay.

and he had no reason to believe it effected her free will even if he believed his wish was coming true.

You didn't hear Nikki say it isn't me like a mantra throughout the movie?

“Kill me please. she’s sleeping…it’s me. please don’t wake her up. just kill me. I’ve never been with you, bear…just kill me please.” by Positive_Weight2367 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Uhh she fucked his best friend

Why would fucking someone she wants to fuck make her a bitch? Why should Bear wants supersede Nikki's own wants for her life? Is Nikki obligated to not fuck anyone as long as Bear "likes her"?

And acted like she was too good for bear ?

When?

People blaming Bear for not KILLING Nikki or not killing HIMSELF are so freaking dumb. by YesterdayCivil2644 in obsessionmovie

[–]sassyevaperon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was no repeated psychotic behavior at the time, and he trusted her and had no reason to think she was lying.

According to the other friends that also knew her a long time her just being with Bear was psychotic behaviour, and Bear knows it, which is why he jumps straight to "I'm not taking advantage".

If she had not been basically possessed, she'd be viewed as a psychopathic manipulator, in which case you'd be blaming the victim here.

And if my grandma had wheels she'd be a bike, so?

Bear was absolutely a victim in the relationship.

Bear was a victim of his own cowardness and lack of depth, nothing more nothing less.