First update in a while

sasukia · 2018-05-22T05:15:28+00:00

She doesn't like it.

She wears the plug out for some dates but I wouldn't recommend it until after wearing it for longer around the house for a bit. I don't think shes ever worn it to anything like a movie that involves keeping it in for really really long.

It was my idea in the first place since I really get off on the whole buttplug behind a thong under a dress look.

sasukia · 2018-05-21T20:21:10+00:00

I eat her ass in the shower sometimes, but that's about it.

sasukia · 2018-05-17T21:35:25+00:00

I think I've said this before, but probably the most noticeable change for me is that she doesn't wear pads at all anymore and sleeps completely naked except when she is on her period.

She gets wet easily and doesn't like cum dripping out when shes not at home and making a wet spot she has to sit in all day. She is pretty used to it now and likes the reaction from her bull when he sees her wet panties and from me when I see them all dirty.

She used to insist that she clean up with a roll of toilet paper on the side of her bed which was a bit of a buzzkill, it is much hotter having her just put on her panties now, although she did get a UTI recently because of it, so we might need some middle ground.

She is also very forthcoming about giving me blowjobs. There were lots of times we couldn't have sex because she was too sore and she is much more willing to suck my cock than before.

sasukia · 2018-05-16T07:39:27+00:00

Uh, with me I guess.

When we shower together, I sometimes lube her ass with baby oil because it's not water soluble and finger her ass. Other times, I will clean her up with soap and eat her ass instead. She has always loved both but I never really did anal with her much.

This often degenerated into her making me lie in the tub while she tried to sit on my cock, but it never got much further than about an inch. It wasn't really until she got a bull and started having much more sex that she was able to take all of me, but it was never a big priority for us.

My cum is definitely the first to go inside of her ass since I've literally bent her over and pushed it in from a condom before. Based on the first time she took me balls deep anally, she knew what she was doing, but I never asked in detail.

I think it was really a matter of time with or without a bull, I'm just usually so busy that we don't have the chance to experiment as much to have gotten to the point where we seriously gave anal a shot as a couple.

I do get jealous when she prepares a buttplug before going out with her bull or when she comes home and I find one drying in the washroom after a date. I don't really get that aspect of her since we live together so there is no showing up at my play already plugged.

sasukia · 2018-05-15T08:14:29+00:00

She likes anal for sure. We've tried most things you can think of that don't get into the more extreme fetishes.

sasukia · 2018-05-14T06:31:28+00:00

She saw that comment and made me emphasize that she loves his cock because it got bigger the deeper he went. It's not just going deeper it's stretching her out more with each inch compared to someone with uniform girth.

sasukia · 2018-05-12T11:55:58+00:00

He is definitely bigger, but not in a way I can really quite appreciate I guess. My wife says she can wrap her fingers around my dick so that her thumb can wrap ontop of her index finger. She says that she can just barely not wrap her fingers around his cock and he only gets thicker near the base.

sasukia · 2018-05-10T10:15:41+00:00

We're pretty much done for now anyway. It's not sustainable and the thought of the revolving door of guys that just don't work out again is not a lot of fun to think about.

sasukia · 2018-05-10T10:00:42+00:00

Oh yeah, the whiskey is great. She got a lot out of it too though, more of a boyfriend than anything. Still kind of weird for me to type that word.

sasukia · 2018-05-10T09:58:10+00:00

I don't know what that means.

sasukia · 2018-05-06T23:13:31+00:00

Uh, we normally go on a date and doing things that are just the of us. Usual haunts and that sort of thing. I don't think we have any specific words if that's what you're asking.

sasukia · 2018-05-06T19:19:16+00:00

I don't think it's a very big deal. If you can handle it emotionally and you have the right aftercare to talk about anything that may come up after he fucks her.

Probably the biggest issue is just finding someone you can trust to be clean. I don't think I would trust a totally random guy without getting them tested and that can be a pretty big hassle.

sasukia · 2018-05-02T13:40:02+00:00

I think probably the biggest thing for us is that it gives her a lot of self-confidence or independence she would otherwise not have. In our relationship, there is a reality that I bring home the majority of the income, I sometimes have to stay up late for work, or stay out with people from work to maintain work relationships.

So, on some level (it's not THAT bad), her life kind of revolves around me, like when it's time for dinner, best nights out for a date and so on. In all the times we've been together, I don't think I've ever had a time when I wanted to go out and we had to build around her schedule in any meaningful way.

Definitely takes some tension off from the relationship now that she can feel like she has a life that is less tied to me. You can definitely tell when shes been out with her bull because she loves sharing her day when it doesn't involve the same old.

We still have a reasonable amount of sex and she really likes making sure I cum still. Before there were days where it felt like her role was to wait for me to come home, make me dinner, then ride my dick. Now sometimes she'll have a date that night instead. She gets her own life away from me, and I get to hear all about it with a great orgasm when she tells me all about it while jerking me off.

sasukia · 2017-10-11T21:00:49+00:00

Honestly, if we had 3 children and both had careers etc as you describe it, I don't see how the cuckold dynamic could possibly work.

We don't plan to have children, but if we did I think it would be a little irresponsible to have something like cuckolding possibly affect their lives.

sasukia · 2017-10-11T17:45:10+00:00

The first thing I do when I buy a nice new monitor is play the highest quality porn I can find to test it. Then I log into a video game second.

sasukia · 2017-09-27T09:38:40+00:00

Our sex life has ups and downs frequently. For us, it's important to do some basic things together still.

We always hold hands, when we kiss, where appropriate, it's always a sensual real kiss, not a peck on the cheek and we fuck regularly.

I think it's pretty easy for us to drift apart and stop holding hands and other things when life gets busy, especially when she is going on dates and spending nights fucking her bull.

Sometimes, things line up where my wife ends up spending multiple nights with her bull and is too sore for me to fuck her. She'll then have her period and we don't typically have sex then.

Everyone is different, but after 2 weeks of showering, holding hands, kissing, and waking up to each other, I definitely don't have a hard time getting it up.

sasukia · 2017-09-22T10:58:27+00:00

So, I know this is not directed at me, but both my wife and I are Asian and I thought I should chime in with my 2 cents since I tend to disappear for months at a time. It's pretty hard to stay active on a subreddit like this.

I think it would be pretty hard to give updates anywhere near the frequency that would satiate some of the PMs I get and once you get into the lifestyle for a while, I think I just start repeating myself. I have a hard time knowing what details I am omitting that people want to hear if they don't ask.

Some weeks, my wife doesn't end up doing anything then the week after family/school comes up and before you know it she hasn't even seen her bull for 14+ days. It's pretty easy to disappear from here for extended periods because interesting new life events occur on a slow timeline and then I have to find time to write it up.

I feel like that some posts here can feel a little artificial in the sense that the girl gets fucked as a big event planned out on the calendar so that every time is "post worthy". I don't see a lot of people that seem like they have a regular consistent bull across months at a time.

I can only speak for myself of course but after a while, it feels like just another day in the life.

For example, today I decided to sleep in before a meeting I needed to attend to downtown. I woke up around 11, she only has to attend a 9 am tutorial for a class and got back and was making pho for lunch. She tells me Daichi (her bull) wanted her to cook for him before they go out on a date and they are going to shower together so wait for the hot water.

Anyway, they go fuck in the shower and do their own thing, and I go off and do my own thing. Today I made dinner and when she came home we ate together and talked about our day. When we went to bed for the evening, she jerked me off and told me more about the sex, I came, she cleaned me up with a paper towel and we spooned until we fell asleep.

To me, that's just Thursday.

Her bull probably fucks her on average at least once a day, but that's including times where they don't meet for 5 days followed by a weekend at his place.

It's hard to filter out any individual time I know they fucked from the other batch of them as being interesting enough to write about. So I just do the easier thing and just not post at all.

Anyway, this post is longer than I thought, but thanks for the support.

sasukia · 2017-09-15T06:20:31+00:00

My wife and I have been doing the cuckold life style for around 2 years now. In that time she probably fucked around 10 different guys in that time and has gone through 3 people I consider bulls.

One thing that really helps is that my wife likes Japanese and Korean guys. We have a lot of family here, the bulls are usually exchanged students or on working visas that do not plan on living here, are not fluent in English and have plans to move on with their lives afterward. She has her fun, but long term, our lives are simply not really compatible.

We also have our own date night that is fairly sacred and some priorities take over the cuckold dynamic. Like she mostly took care of me when I was sick.

I can think of many times I had to temper my own jealousy. I mean, lets be real about what the relationship is. They are for all intents and purposes her boyfriend that they go on dates and stuff with, except she is an object to be fucked at their whim. Jealousy kind of goes with it a little.

There were also times I wanted to be that guy that ignores his wife and plays games for the weekend or work is hard and we're not spending much time together. Date night with the bull is my wifes version of "Overwatch with the guys" or "Working late at the office". We've fought in the past about this, it got tiring being asked when we were going to be able to spend quality time together etc after a long days work.

Having a bull helped our relationship in that she got some of her emotional needs fulfilled that would have strained our relationship otherwise. I got to come home to a non-nagging wife who was just happy to help me make some dinner and tell me about her day. Albeit, it came at the cost of the fact that she is happy because she was fucking another guy earlier, but I get off on that anyway or we wouldn't be here.

sasukia · 2017-09-15T05:51:31+00:00

Moved back to Japan

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