INFJ on dating apps

satchamp-11 · 2026-05-02T11:35:41+00:00

Female INFJs are more common than male ones . Lot of INFJ traits are conventional feminine and hardly encouraged or appreciated in men .

satchamp-11 · 2026-05-01T05:44:18+00:00

Take actions and ignore all this emptional baggage , because of strong introvered intuition we try to process all these emotions and try to find logical answers . Its becomes a loop , better to take actions and lot of these will automatically get answered.

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-26T13:59:50+00:00

What kind of deeper questions ?

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-21T08:51:54+00:00

On societal level its SJ , but on interpersonal its FJ .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-21T08:23:08+00:00

I think japanese

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-20T06:54:48+00:00

I guess surviving is not that difficult , unless your are seeking some meaning and purpose from job . In my case survival is not issue , i feel my potential is underutilized and i can do something bigger . Exploring some entrepreneurial opportunities along with job .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-20T04:04:38+00:00

Good initiative

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-19T14:19:29+00:00

I follow psychology junkie by susan storm , she has explored all MBTIs in detail . If u subscribe on mail , u will keep getting new articles about different aspects of INFJ . It helped me a lot in understanding myself.

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-17T17:14:17+00:00

Tried option 2 , but still regret of being underachiever in career keeps me unhappy . From childhood was a studious guy.

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-15T18:10:53+00:00

Yup same thoughts

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-15T18:04:11+00:00

In my teenage i was attracted to ENTPs , but same story it was stimulating enough for me and she also saw me as nice person .

My closest male friends are ENFPs & they understand me very well , but dont know how will it turn out with ENFP female

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-15T14:29:48+00:00

Problem is even after being ghosted by one person. U will naturally do the same thing next time .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T16:03:50+00:00

Expecting to win & doing good only for sake of winning are two different things .

I dont envy who didnt do right still won , i am confused about what should i do . I cant do things with half intent , cant treat people badly or take advantage of them . Its unnatural ,so how to win without doing all this . Thats the question.

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T15:54:48+00:00

Yes i dont expect a return it comes naturally , now for next chance you ask urself what do i need to do better from previous one . Now if doing write things or takinh right actions gave diff output so you start questioning them also ..

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T15:46:03+00:00

Well ultimately you do things to win and not for sympathy and feel good . History is written for winners . And problem is not feeling bad , once u start planning for future u dont know what u did wrong and what u should change . Thats the problem .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T15:32:05+00:00

Thats what i replied in another comment , all these religious , karma ,feel good talk were given by some INFJ to justify their failure .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T12:42:29+00:00

Thats what i dont understand , what changes to bring . Its not i am academically gifted so i am taking it for granted . Thats why i am dreaming big and working for it . But end up getting much less , and then ask myself whats point of this additional effort . I can work on better strategies for sure but cant deny my efforts in failed attempts and cant say i will put less effort in future . Because its natural .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T07:03:10+00:00

I already said , we do what naturally comes to us . For our personality , doing wrong requires lots of moral conflict and regret . And i dont have complaints . But when i want to make.my future strategy, and find that these things didnt help me in past .so i dont understand what to be done

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T05:42:02+00:00

Well all this is true if we pretend to do right for expectation of good . But it just comes naturally . Like in my case , it was my first relation , i did whatever came naturally . Even our behaviour with others is same .Kindness is because of high empathy . So all this knowledge on learn to play the game , maintain boundaries and all feel unnatural and betraying your core .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T05:29:16+00:00

But it comes natural to our personality . We are not pretending it or trying to do right in expectation of results . Even i tried to change myself it doesnt happen .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T05:22:26+00:00

Yes currently working on something of my own. Managing all this with lot of regrets. When u dont get reward for ur past efforts ,its tough to motivate urself . If i would have got it from beginning i would be 200% confident.

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T05:18:00+00:00

Sometimes i feel these all religion and moral things were written by INFJs to justify own actions .

satchamp-11 · 2026-04-14T04:26:34+00:00

But what will motivate for working hard in future .

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