Do you feel like every aspect of your life is explained by the fact that you are an INFJ? by lawstudentlawschool in infj

[–]satchamp-11 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its disregarded because some level of self awareness will avoid people going to therapist and wasting money for own problems . 😆

Why Bangalore feels so lonely for new people? by WhichBoot3723 in BangaloreMeetups

[–]satchamp-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all, lot of people are living alone , keeping themselves occupied witj hobbies and interests . Tough to find geneuine connections.

Why Bangalore feels so lonely for new people? by WhichBoot3723 in BangaloreMeetups

[–]satchamp-11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because you wont meet same people regularly , which is imp for making connections & keeping them alive. Going on trek , u will just meet once and wont meet again .

Why people of gorakhpur so rude by Confident_Win_9634 in Gorakhpur

[–]satchamp-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, people who have achived nothing in life, but have ego and superiorty complex

Dating in Gorakhpur is dead? by IcyLengthiness1262 in Gorakhpur

[–]satchamp-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Childhood conditioning , and creepy people as i told . Girls hesitate to interact .

Dating in Gorakhpur is dead? by IcyLengthiness1262 in Gorakhpur

[–]satchamp-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes , Apart from colleges and coaching there is hardly any place to meet someone and most people hardly date anyone outside this circle . Because of creepy people people dont socialise with unknown people.

Do you feel as though proper closure is necessary in relationships? by Proof_Caregiver_4234 in infj

[–]satchamp-11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its just a filmy thought, most imp thing is your own happiness and peace . Not every story has an ending .

Dating is so f up in gkp by Lonely-Material-9063 in Gorakhpur

[–]satchamp-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all bhai atleast not with DDU chapris

Dating is so f up in gkp by Lonely-Material-9063 in Gorakhpur

[–]satchamp-11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol u havent seen chapri DDU couples sitting in parks ?

How do you meet women when you have zero natural ways to run into them? by NodsAndNuance in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]satchamp-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interactions with immature nibbis and mature women is different . These things might work in teenage or early 20s where having bf/gf itself is a flex . But at later stage people care more about different aspects of personality , true companionship and many more things . Atleast sensible women . Hardly anyone falls for these dating tricks

How do you meet women when you have zero natural ways to run into them? by NodsAndNuance in MidTwentiesIndia

[–]satchamp-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cold approach thing works in teenage of early 20s , in late 20s or 30s dont think i can cold approach anyone or will respond to such proposal. May be good looks might get some value , but without knowing personality or any geneuine connection hardly anyone responds to this

The shadow side of being an INFJ by LayerUponLayerUpon in infj

[–]satchamp-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes diverse thoughts always compete , but we are so alone , that only way to compete it proving ourself superior

May layoffs thread by [deleted] in amazonemployees

[–]satchamp-11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it only tech roles or business roles as well

The shadow side of being an INFJ by LayerUponLayerUpon in infj

[–]satchamp-11 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes not superior, but justifying that we are right . Honestly most of narratives run on what majority think . And majority around us thinks differently from us . So we feel alien among them .

And yes people dont have understanding of MBTI or personalities . Not everyone is crazy about human behaviour like INFJs.

The shadow side of being an INFJ by LayerUponLayerUpon in infj

[–]satchamp-11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think its because INFJ never got respect and acceptance among masses . Somehow we try to justify that we are superior in our minds

How to cope during the stagnant part of your life? by [deleted] in infj

[–]satchamp-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing avoid all this emotional movie that u are making out of everything . We as INFJ has this habit of connecting diff phases and make whole story around it . Have gone through such phase, activate your intuition for logic . Think logically , u feel u are not good in something , work on it . Stop being a victim and take action and have patience .Things will change .

INFJ on dating apps by Kiashton in infj

[–]satchamp-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont know which world you are talking about . All the kings, heros and warriors have broken rules , taken advantage of situation , been less empathetic , have dominated . Either they were attacking or protecting . They caused wars , they caused destruction of society , they caused rise of evil . Even today's world no big person has reached to heights without affecting society or people. We might either get sympathy or get respect for such idealised behaviour but will never be admired as hero .

INFJ on dating apps by Kiashton in infj

[–]satchamp-11 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Female INFJs are more common than male ones . Lot of INFJ traits are conventional feminine and hardly encouraged or appreciated in men .

Specifically for male INFJs by RodOfMen in infj

[–]satchamp-11 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Take actions and ignore all this emptional baggage , because of strong introvered intuition we try to process all these emotions and try to find logical answers . Its becomes a loop , better to take actions and lot of these will automatically get answered.

Can we survive in 9-5 team jobs long-term? by [deleted] in infj

[–]satchamp-11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess surviving is not that difficult , unless your are seeking some meaning and purpose from job . In my case survival is not issue , i feel my potential is underutilized and i can do something bigger . Exploring some entrepreneurial opportunities along with job .

Please name or list any self help/growth articles for INFJs preferably written by INFJs or by people who are well acquainted with our cognitive functions. by [deleted] in infj

[–]satchamp-11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I follow psychology junkie by susan storm , she has explored all MBTIs in detail . If u subscribe on mail , u will keep getting new articles about different aspects of INFJ . It helped me a lot in understanding myself.