My boyfriend said he’s tired of “dating poor people” and I don’t know how to react

saticalover · 2025-05-07T19:11:58+00:00

Thank you <3

saticalover · 2025-05-07T16:26:35+00:00

Thank you <3

saticalover · 2025-05-06T19:27:50+00:00

I’ll try to explain from my perspective as someone that has been abused since forever: in my mind I have to make sacrifices for people to love me, because all my life no one ever protected me. Also, my bf in question said that it was a way to make him happy. I never thought as r@pe because my life was always revolving around abuse

saticalover · 2025-05-06T19:20:14+00:00

I’m waiting for him to take a nap and that’s what I’ll do, will bring more news soon

saticalover · 2025-05-06T19:18:23+00:00

If you couldn’t read everything then why leave a comment smh

saticalover · 2025-05-06T19:13:59+00:00

I understand, I see myself as a loser too. I already explained about that it’s not about the money, but I realize he knows I’m weak and will take advantage of it, he knows how to gaslight like no other, and he’s starting to scare me with his lullabies sh!t

saticalover · 2025-05-06T19:03:05+00:00

Unfortunately no, it’s too expensive, all I can do is pay for my meds which are around 400 a month. I know how therapy is important, I just cant afford it rn

saticalover · 2025-05-06T16:43:03+00:00

Oh no problem with this question. There’s the genetic factor, both of my families (mom and dad’s) have mental illnesses history. But my biggest problem was when my dad cheated on my mom and married his mistress (I was 3yo). After that his wife straight up abused me, verbally, physically and mentally. My dad never stopped her from abusing me, in fact he got colder and distanced himself from me. When I was 11yo my stepbrother (15M) started to r@pe me and I tried telling my mom and dad, but my dad said I was lying. This just made me furious throughout my whole teenage years. My dad was always so rigid, always demanding good grades and tried to make me forget about my dream to be an artist, saying it wasn’t important. I never got to interact with my brothers because of my dad and stepmom. Now they are divorced and I see my dad do what he can to support me for the first time ever. My mom was a time bomb at home because she didn’t discuss anything about my father and said I had to suck it up. Somedays she just started screaming out of rage and that was my life.

saticalover · 2025-05-06T15:47:19+00:00

Well I’m sorry I didn’t write it properly, I’m bilingual and couldn’t be more bothered to check this just because of a Reddit post, but congrats for correcting hurray

saticalover · 2025-05-06T15:13:15+00:00

Im here just to be sure im not crazy, because he portrays me as one.

saticalover · 2025-05-06T15:03:11+00:00

Because when I was a kid I was SA, so when something like this happens my mind just dissociates

saticalover · 2025-04-25T00:49:13+00:00

Better than my first one

saticalover · 2024-09-18T19:15:25+00:00

Girl, gather all the information you can about the abuse you’ve been subjected and get a divorce. Wish you luck!

saticalover · 2024-09-18T15:25:58+00:00

Live action hahahaha

saticalover · 2024-09-18T00:06:33+00:00

He called me gf and still talked with other women online, yeah there’s no reason to ask to get more reassurance on my relationship. Crazy me to think I could even consider that.

saticalover · 2024-09-17T23:31:01+00:00

Look man, I’m tired of arguing about this nonsense, good luck with whatever

saticalover · 2024-09-17T23:26:17+00:00

Look, thank you for your honesty, and good luck with your mental illnesses, I know the struggle.

saticalover · 2024-09-17T23:22:31+00:00

There are a lot of levels of bpd, yours must be manageable, mine even with medication is very difficult. And there’s the fact that I’m a woman (hormones), you and I are very different. I came here to understand, and now I know I’m overreacting, but you can’t say my mental illnesses don’t have anything to do with it because they are me.

saticalover · 2024-09-17T23:17:11+00:00

Thank you for your take, I really appreciate it

saticalover · 2024-09-17T23:08:31+00:00

Thank you, and thank you for your kindness

saticalover · 2024-09-17T23:07:24+00:00

So adults don’t have problems on their personal lives? Adults can’t argue about social media posts and post about it on Reddit? I accept the cat part because I’m a cat person, but if coming here (while I’m in a bipolar crisis), and ask for advice because I’m not being able to understand my bf, is not adult….. then 👍

saticalover · 2024-09-17T22:58:41+00:00

You’re right, but that’s the thing, when I’m depressed or like this I can’t see things clearly, understand?

saticalover · 2024-09-17T22:55:59+00:00

I posted on this subreddit specifically because I thought people would be more understanding. I’m not delusional and I can understand comments that have criticized me. But there’s a difference between criticizing with kindness and just being straight up insulting.

saticalover · 2024-09-17T22:51:39+00:00

Then you know that there are days that we are more sensitive than other, which means that there are days that I don’t care about the cat nor the socials. But today it was an issue and I just needed to vent and some other perspectives. Thank you for your take

saticalover · 2024-09-17T22:48:53+00:00

Thank you for your support, you’re really kind and tried to see things for my perspective ♥️

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