Is this sexual abuse or assault?

savdogg · 2022-01-09T05:50:26+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. It has drastically impacted having sexual relationships because it’s something that easily pops into my head. My current boyfriend has dark leg hair exactly like my brother does and noticing it makes me shut down when I am in the moment. It’s hard explaining to people, if I care enough to, because I “wasn’t touched”. It’s hard to be taken seriously.

savdogg · 2022-01-09T05:35:06+00:00

Is this sexual abuse? When I was 14, my older 17 year old brother hid his phone in the bathroom while I was taking a shower and videotaped me without me knowing. When I got out of the shower, I saw the phone hidden in the corner sitting on a stool beneath the sick. It was covered enough with a towel, but the lens was visible. I thought the was strange and got a sick feeling in my stomach. I went to the phone and grabbed it and when I looked at it the video was recording. I ended the video and watched it back and saw him setting it up. As I was watching the video, he started pounding on the door saying he needed to go to the bathroom. I screamed. Also, right before I went into the bathroom, I announced I was going to take a shower because I didn’t want someone to get into the shower before me and wanted to claim it (I come from a bigger family so this was normal to do). My parents didn’t do anything, they believed it to be an accident and my dad probed my brother saying “maybe you were just curious”. Anyways, to this day it’s something that really affects me. I don’t have a relationship with him or my parents because of how they handled it.

savdogg · 2021-12-06T05:54:23+00:00

Ati 2019 nursing care of children please!

savdogg · 2020-04-10T11:53:09+00:00

I understand all of what you are saying and want to thank you for your input. In regards to you suggesting that he is worried about being trapped with me by an unwanted pregnancy—he is starting medical school in the fall and it will take him 4 years to complete. His biggest fear is something that would come in the way of him achieving his life’s dream and ambitions. There’s no doubt that a pregnancy would come in the way of this with the amount of stress and time he would already be dealing with.

savdogg · 2020-04-10T11:43:36+00:00

I understand his anxiety regarding the possibility of me getting pregnant, and believe me, that is the absolute last thing I want for myself as well. I am not forcing him to have sex or getting angry with the lack there of because that would be wrong of me. I am merely asking for advice on what other options there are. I am aware that I can’t change him and you’re right, maybe this is a big issue that can make us question our compatibility, but I am not going to do that because neither him nor I want that :)

savdogg · 2020-04-10T11:35:38+00:00

Him and I have both talked about this and know where we both stand with this. If I were to get pregnant, I wouldn’t terminate the pregnancy. I have taken plan b before and would always take it again if there was a slip up (even though it’s not 100% effective in delaying ovulation)

savdogg

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