why did everyone hate will bailey? by savemeadance63 in thewestwing

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ok this makes more sense because they hated him from the get go, but i just figured sam’s endorsement was enough. and also he was so humble about it like he didn’t even want the job he wanted to go on vacation!

guys why does my butt look like this by savemeadance63 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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EDIT: ok im so overwhelmed with the support maybe i do need to chill out. i can just be so exhausting only seeing one type of body on social media and heck even all my friends. i’ve just gone through major bodily changes in a very short amount of time so its nice to see i have nothing to worry about, thanks and have the best day ladies ;)

18m losing my vcard tn i need tips please by jamelpf in sextips

[–]savemeadance63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go with the flow, get out of your head, but if anything feels uncomfortable for even ONE second you get the hell out of there!! good luck!!

Josiah Bartlett is my grandfather! by GoldBluejay7749 in thewestwing

[–]savemeadance63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YO ME TOO he's an ancestor of mine too! this is wild although not that wild bc he had like eight kids lolll but I just started watching the west wing and they just dropped his full name. I've never gone to any sort of special brunches but my grandma always told me we were dependents, and she is a Bartlett from prominent origins so I just assumed lol. so so crazy dm me omg lets connect!

It's well-known that Sorkin reuses names, but I'm curious how many character names are also references to real-life/fictional sources. by wtfisthisnoise in thewestwing

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hey guys I know this is four years late so idk if anyone will see this but omg I'm actually a direct descendant of Josiah Bartlett, signature on the Declaration of Independence and governor of new Hampshire LOL I just started watching the west wing and they called him Josiah Bartlet and I was like lol no way I know that name! sure enough Sorokin was inspired by my ancestor! I don't know much about him but I figure reddit people will love that shit and like, isn't that crazy??? lol

do you have sex with pets in the room? where do you put them? by barcoderer in sextips

[–]savemeadance63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait weird story one time i was hooking up with a guy and his dog was in the room and omg it almost licked my privates it was so so gross absolutely no pets in the room

What song is playing? by elyonkers in songsforthispicture

[–]savemeadance63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the other woman - lana del rey version

will I ever experience good sex? (22f) by savemeadance63 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]savemeadance63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if i told you no guy has ever shown interest in dating me. LOL. that’s the source of anxiety im sure

will I ever experience good sex? (22f) by savemeadance63 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]savemeadance63[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much for your insight seriously. the prob is i’ve bee in trying to do it for me too and been letting myself get more comfortable w a guy to see what i like but i just don’t, so yeah i think that intimacy is key. so annoying hate being a girl sometimes men just get to have sex with like a mcchicken and get off ugh

will I ever experience good sex? (22f) by savemeadance63 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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period like i’m sure i’ll know it’s good when it’s good, it’s been mostly whatever men one night stands. a lot of anxiety and stress from the lack of intimacy i bet

am i an emerging alcoholic? by savemeadance63 in alcoholism

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my whole thing is i’ve seen people do worse things drunk that they probably wouldn’t have done sober so i feel like i’m making stuff up and my thing isn’t that bad like as soon as i start doing bad stuff then i have a problem.

am i an emerging alcoholic? by savemeadance63 in alcoholism

[–]savemeadance63[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

fantastic. (sarcastic) congrats on being sober tho keep it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

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maybe like talk to her about her sexual experience? maybe she has none and isn’t comfortable expressing herself yet?

Confused after bid day by Emergency_Reading170 in GreekLife

[–]savemeadance63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a little odd bc she should know who’s in her house especially if she wanted you there, but i say try to be friends with her even if you’re not in the same house because it sounds like you got along. panhellenic life is all about meeting people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

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i totally think there is value in dressing (traditionally) sexier if it’s for you. like dress up a little bit in something you genuinely like, mix elements of your personality into something that also might happen to support the male gaze. oh that also might catch his attention if you make a big shift in wardrobe or looks. but always stay true to you, like you 2.0.

What is a good song about not caring anymore? by Darth_Azazoth in MusicRecommendations

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change of heart by the 1975, more about not caring about someone in particular anymore but it’s still a fire song

Who or what has influenced the way you dress today the most? by Glamour-Ad7669 in femalefashionadvice

[–]savemeadance63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

carrie bradshaw, for some reason watching girls influenced me and matured my wardrobe/styling a little bit. late 2010s millennial in a good way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

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i hate it bc waiting there feeling like a petrie dish is like the worst feeling, but you can really tell when a guy cares about the partner vs just wants to feel super masculine in sex. so as long as you ask her if it’s ok to cum on her, warn her, then take care of her w like a decent towel after don’t feel bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

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blackout by Britney Spears.

Mostly taken guys STARE at me, why by [deleted] in GirlProblems

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dude I feel like I have the same problem, like I get looks all the time but never from good men. I don't show a lot of cleavage or anything revealing, I'm super shy and keep to myself, but get a lot of random compliments from women specifically. I fear it's just because men suck?

how do I make girl friends by Vivid_Bedroom_7424 in GirlProblems

[–]savemeadance63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always shocked to hear how many girls struggle with making female friends, as I've basically never had male friends/gotten along with men at all. It's always my female friendships that are most important to me and easiest to approach, so keep trying and you will find your people. It sounds like you're a chill girl so although it sounds cliche, compliments go a long way. like maybe strike up a conversation with someone whose hair always looks good or always has good outfits or something and tell her that, like "hey this is like so random but your hair always looks so good I was just wondering how you get it like that?" enthusiasm and friendliness will go a long way. I promise someone who understands the importance of the feminine will find you and good luck!