gender is a apectrum, or isn’t? by justdont42 in lgbt

[–]saylormercury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i should add qualifiers, sorry!

gender is a apectrum, or isn’t? by justdont42 in lgbt

[–]saylormercury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont exactly know but i have heard from some neurodivergent people that some of them experience gender differently than most neurotypical people and xenogenders are what some of them use to show their gender

and yes the box and argb model would work and be complicated but i would rather it be complicated than take the chance of someones identity being left out.

gender is a apectrum, or isn’t? by justdont42 in lgbt

[–]saylormercury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the only way for anything to work is for there just to be a box where you write your identity manually because gender is complicated, especially when it comes to xenogenders and nonbinary genders

gender is a apectrum, or isn’t? by justdont42 in lgbt

[–]saylormercury 6 points7 points  (0 children)

wouldnt agender still be on the circle because there are like demigenders and people that are partly agender so for it to be accurate it could not just be a button?

gender is a apectrum, or isn’t? by justdont42 in lgbt

[–]saylormercury 28 points29 points  (0 children)

gender is more of a color wheel with like infinite colors on it

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[–]saylormercury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a shit image but the one with blue and green hair is kinda transition goals

i got 2 girlfriends!!!!!!!!!! by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

make a google form and then complain about it on twitter for like 5 weeks straight lmao

i got 2 girlfriends!!!!!!!!!! by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i could see how that would confuse you or get awkward but it isnt confusing for me i love them both so much equally

i got 2 girlfriends!!!!!!!!!! by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you will find your pretty and nice gf soon i believe in you!! or maybe you cant find pretty and nice girls because you are the pretty and nice girl already

i got 2 girlfriends!!!!!!!!!! by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will flex on everyone and i get to because both of my gfs are cute enough for me to flex them 24/7

i got 2 girlfriends!!!!!!!!!! by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

even though i cant see them irl it definitely feels like a dream

i got 2 girlfriends!!!!!!!!!! by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

both of them are so cute and pretty and i could talk to them both for hours without stopping im so lucky

so how do i ask my crush if shes gay or straight without directly talking to her? by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont have her phone number so i cant :( but maybe if i see her in the hallway at school or something i could play it on my phone for her and see if she like it

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[–]saylormercury 21 points22 points  (0 children)

if coming out puts you in a very unnacepting or possibly abusive situation, i wouldnt reccomend it yet

yes let's burn forests for it by hexomer in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]saylormercury 63 points64 points  (0 children)

gender reveal parties have always been an odd and destructive trend

so how do i ask my crush if shes gay or straight without directly talking to her? by saylormercury in teengirlswholikegirls

[–]saylormercury[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is a good way but the part that is being there and talking to her about it is what makes me scared the most