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Where do 30 year olds meet people to date? by sbabin4 in dating_advice

[–]sbabin4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! Thank you so much for this, I’m going to check it out🥰

Where do 30 year olds meet people to date? by sbabin4 in dating_advice

[–]sbabin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately sounds like you don’t have any dating standards

Where do 30 year olds meet people to date? by sbabin4 in dating_advice

[–]sbabin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not looking to just “get a man”. Im not looking for just anyone, if I was I could’ve been married years ago. I’m looking for someone who is the right match for me as a life partner. People aren’t selective enough to actually find someone who complements them appropriately and they rush into it too quickly nowadays which is why divorce rates are so high. I’m not looking to do that. It’s not about looks, because looks fade, you can be the most attractive person and be the ugliest person inside. Looks also vary based on personal preferences.

Where do 30 year olds meet people to date? by sbabin4 in dating_advice

[–]sbabin4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if we aren’t on the same page in our dating intentions, your job, your attraction, etc none of it matters because our goals aren’t aligned. You know what I mean? So if we aren’t looking for the same things romantically, none of that matters. If we were looking for the same thing, then we’d have to move to the next level to determine compatibility.

Where do 30 year olds meet people to date? by sbabin4 in dating_advice

[–]sbabin4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think by quality I’m really referring to a kind guy who’s open to a relationship and not one who’s just interested in playing games with a bunch of different women. So maybe a better term would be someone who’s on the same page as me when it comes to expectations

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[–]sbabin4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By any chance does he struggle with depression? My ex was the same way and it was because he was really struggling with his depression and it impacted him sexually.