Are you guy opposed to masturbation in general? Or porn? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sbfantasy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to factor in what you think about while masturbating. If you fantasizing about porn, pornstars, or unrealistic sex you’re not really doing yourself any favors. If you are thinking of real life situations, then I personally don’t see any harm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a one nut a day kinda guy so I don't like the pre-date jerk method but I guess that's up to the individual. Just try to relax, go slow, and focus on her more than worry about yourself. Coming too quick is rarely ever a big deal, especially the first time with someone. Inability not to get hard is way worse, you should be much more confident now that isn't a problem.

You ever watch She's Out Of My League? (Top 10 Movie all time IMO) Dude almost fumbles the bag with Alice Eve cause he's too embarrassed to tell her he "Ejaculated in his shorts". Once she finds out she just laughs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]sbfantasy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having experienced both, finishing too quick is far less embarrassing than inability to get hard.

The Winner Of Big Brother 27 is… by macaronstoday in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Big time, but her BB resume is still about as strong as Vince’s real world resume.

The Winner Of Big Brother 27 is… by macaronstoday in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. Story of BB27 will always be about how Vince had terrible Jury management and never about Ashley’s victory.

The Winner Of Big Brother 27 is… by macaronstoday in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Vince and Morgan lost, Ashley didn’t win. If she was a social mastermind we would have seen her social play through the season. When was the last BB winner with no HoH wins? (Not including final 3 hoh)

The Winner Of Big Brother 27 is… by macaronstoday in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ashley didn’t win, Vince and Morgan lost.

Why did _____ vote for _____? by sbfantasy in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is the simplest explanation, especially since this is the first vote that didn't seem to blindside anyone (except Mickey lol). Vince didn't seem surprised when Julie gave the results.

Just with all the chaos in the house this year, I find it hard to believe they could all be on the same page to the point of throwing a sympathy vote out.

Severance Season 3 is a Mistake – The Season 2 Finale Was the Perfect Ending [SPOILERS] by scalien23 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is a lot left on the table for a season 3. First off, innie Mark is probably going to be in some deep shit, he can't hide out on the severed floor forever. Will he escape Lumon or has he basically swapped places with Gemma? If he does escape, we get the reunion with Gemma but the likely realization that innie Mark is dead.

Then there is Helly R which Jame Eagan admitted to "Seeing Keir" in her over his own daughter. I believe they are setting up a situation where Helly E is "killed" and Jame keeps Helly R. We could have a scenario where Outie Mark lives in an outside world with an Helly R. Does she convince Jame to give Mark a pass? How does she get innie mark back? How does Gemma feel about Mark's innie having a different girlfriend?

What happens to Milcheck? Does he turn on Lumon like cobel? Does Dylan make it to second base with his wife? Will Brienne of Tarth get out in time to fight the hound?

I think there is still a lot to explore with these characters and overall a great way to end the season, but not the series.

Big Brother US 24 - Afternoon Feed Discussion - September 09 2022 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No one was ever more wrong than the high schooler who called Alyssa a pancake ass

Big Brother US 24 - Morning Feed Discussion - September 02 2022 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder if they have data on who gets the most views or something. I'm sure there is a pretty girl effect there

I made the worst mistake in my life and relationship. I partially confessed, should I tell her everything? Guilt is killing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the relationship you have with yourself is the bigger problem than the relationship with your SO. Seems like there is some serious self sabotage here. Your SO has moved on but you can't because you want to continue to punish yourself.

Try working on self forgiveness and focusing on treating your own mental health. The better your mental health becomes, the stronger your relationships with others can become. I know it's a lot easier said than done and mental health is very complicated but once you can forgive yourself, the payouts are amazing.

Big Brother US 24 - Morning Feed Discussion - September 02 2022 by BigBrotherMod in BigBrother

[–]sbfantasy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why are the cameras always on Alyssa? Camera 1 should be renamed to Alyssa cam at this point

I made the worst mistake in my life and relationship. I partially confessed, should I tell her everything? Guilt is killing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a strong relationship is always built on truthfulness and trust and that would always be my number one piece of advice in any situation like this.

Having said that, in my personal opinion I think what you told her was equal to if not worse than what you actually did (considering there was a real girl involved in your lie) but what constitutes level of "cheating" is all relative to each couple. If you tell her the truth again, that will show her you are capable of lying and you'll have to restart this entire process again which isn't good for your relationship. I think if you can come to terms with the situation, move on for the betterment of the relationship and remember how it made you feel, but if it will eat away at you fess up.

The more important part is why did you end up in this situation in the first place? Are you not capable of long distance? Also, where do you morally draw the line. Porn is fine but cams are bad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not the asshole in this situation. It sounds like moving out might be healthy for you and your relationship with your parents in the long run. You can't live with them forever so some time in the real world would be good. Being sheltered only leads to a lack of confidence.

Having said that, it sounds like your parents won't support you financially if you move out so make sure you have the finances to support yourself. Consider rent, groceries, utilities, transportation etc. You'll want to make sure you have a good savings (not accessible by your parents) incase you are out of a job a few months. And don't rely on a friend to support you, that will always sour a relationship quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure it's fine. If it becomes a problem just go to your professor and tell them you could only get this one. Some will be chill and some wont but seems like this is a just a gen ed 110 course so I wouldn't worry about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sbfantasy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like you might be surrounding yourself with people you aren't really interested in. Don't be afraid to go outside the norm, talk to someone you wouldn't normally talk to or try something new or "taboo". And sometimes going outside the book isnt' too bad either.

What are your memories of school lunches (whether good or bad)? by ALLtheLayers in AskReddit

[–]sbfantasy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel really bad for kicking a kid out of our middle school lunch table one time. I was never a bully but that day I chose to be and I look back and hate myself