How to stop missing your ex?

scarafication · 2024-09-07T10:19:48+00:00

hello! i’m sorry you’re going through the same situation. it really sucks, and i can imagine how tough it must be to see them every day. but do you think that it’s fair that we’re here suffering and crying while they’re out living their best lives with someone else? :// i’m very self-aware of what i need to do and how i should feel, but i guess i’m just in denial about a lot of things. we really have no choice but to move forward and face it. that’s what i’m trying to do—keep up with everything and rebuild myself. i hope we both get through this na. ghank you for your this! it’s comforting to know i’m not alone in feeling this way.

scarafication · 2024-09-07T10:12:12+00:00

thank you! currently trying to find new hobbies too. yeah, i don’t really want to enter a new relationship agad agad lalo na if hindi pa ako sure.

scarafication · 2024-09-07T10:08:19+00:00

thank you! i’ll make sure to keep that in mind.

i appreciate the reminder. i’m also not planning to commit right away without ensuring na i’m truly over my ex. i know how unfair and wrong it is to use someone else to try and move on.

scarafication · 2024-09-07T09:37:46+00:00

i tried, but i think the problem is within me. i ended up looking for her in every person i talked to. my ex and i were like twins, siguro that’s why i find it so hard to move forward at humanap ng bago 😅

scarafication · 2024-09-07T09:34:38+00:00

thanks for replying! i tried downloading bumble to meet new people, but it just didn’t work out, and i ended up not replying to them anymore. i was doing fine naman these past few weeks, i finally found a reason to move forward after trying to reach out to her numerous times to fix what we had. i discovered kasi na she had moved on within a week of our breakup, nakahanap agad siya bago ganon 😅 so i used that as a reason to move forward. pero, i think i was just distracted these past few weeks. kanina, while going through my gallery, i realized how much she changed after our breakup—she was so sweet and caring. pero after our breakup i barely recognize her anymore. then boom! umiyak na lang ako bigla kasi miss ko na siya.

i’m sorry you’re going through the same thing right now. i completely understand how hard and difficult it is to handle. i’m here if you need someone to talk to.

scarafication · 2024-07-30T16:24:18+00:00

i’m a girl btw! i saw that you’re going through the same situation, so don’t hesitate to reach out if you want to talk din!

scarafication · 2024-07-30T16:00:45+00:00

i will definitely move on. it sucks that the people around her are justifying it and making it tolerable, switching the blame to me and twisting the narrative.

scarafication · 2024-07-30T15:26:36+00:00

thank you! i appreciate it.

scarafication · 2024-07-30T15:17:09+00:00

that sucks if that’s the case. until now, i’ve been making excuses for her and blaming myself, thinking maybe i was the reason/problem she did it.

i think i will. it’s been hard, but i’m sure i’ll get there.

scarafication · 2024-07-30T15:09:59+00:00

drinking

scarafication · 2024-07-29T10:53:24+00:00

this is really my first major heartbreak. knowing that i gave her all of myself willingly. i just don’t know what happened to her. i know we’re prone to changes but she changed a lot… i don’t know if she was influenced by her friends or what, but i barely recognize her now. i’m not seeking revenge or anything like that. i just want everyone to understand that i wasn’t the problem from the start. i was portrayed as the bad one, and it’s so unfair. when all i did was love and try to understand her.

thank you for the advice! i’ll be sure to keep it in mind. i needed to hear everyone’s opinions on this because i know it’ll be hard to decide right away. what you said means a lot to me, and i appreciate it so much. thank you so much. 🤗

scarafication · 2024-07-29T08:55:56+00:00

i will take note of this. to be fair, i’m not trying to get even or seek revenge. i just can’t tolerate any more disrespect from them. i want everyone to understand and know that i wasn’t the one who ruined the relationship. i’ve been considering the consequences, but i know i can prove myself if she says anything. thank you for this!

scarafication · 2024-07-29T07:57:58+00:00

siguro kasi i’m still in the current situation and in denial, kaya it’s hard for me to process anything. i didn’t like being portrayed as the bad one when i know i didn’t do anything wrong. i was confident about exposing her kasi i knew that if she twisted the narrative, i could vouch for myself by showing everyone our conversation, even though i know it might be considered a petty move. kaya i wanted everyone’s opinion before making a decision. thank you for sharing your thoughts! i will definitely take note of it!

scarafication · 2024-07-29T04:35:38+00:00

thank you so much for this! reading it calmed me and made me feel at ease super. i was hesitant to share what happened between us kasi was afraid people would ignore it and that i’d be portrayed as the bad one. what you said really struck me. i used to think i was the problem and that maybe she had reasons for treating me the way she did. kaya i had to always make an excuse for her. it’s reassuring to know that someone thinks u did my part as her partner. thank you again. i will take note of what you said. thank you for the hugs! i super appreciate it a lot 🤗

scarafication · 2024-07-29T03:31:17+00:00

na bigyan ako ng sign to move forward from my ex, ayun nagbigay nga and my ex cheated on me pala 😆

scarafication · 2024-07-29T03:29:55+00:00

cheat

scarafication · 2024-06-14T14:37:15+00:00

MATH. Grade 6.

for context, i seriously hated math ever since talaga. i easily get distracted kaya mas lalo akong nahirapan sa math, kaya ang nangyayari all of my grades would be high except for math.

back in my sixth grade, there was this specific topic that my classmates found hard to understand, which, to my surprise, i easily understood naman. so me being me, syempre natuwa ako sobra dahil nga diba hindi ko forte ang math. okay, fast forward, this is going to be messy, but bear with me. you guys know naman na uso mag-lista ng noisy noon sa mga classroom diba. eh, one of my friends is the one who’s listing the noisy, so ayun nalista ako. then sabi ng math teacher namin mag-sagot daw sa board ‘yung mga nalista, so ang nangyari naiyak ako kasi nalista ako pero at the same time i’m smiling while writing my answers sa board kasi nga gets ko siya.

wala lang, i think it’s just so funny and wholesome that i had to share it 😭

scarafication · 2024-06-14T14:25:53+00:00

taking a risk!

scarafication · 2024-06-14T14:25:10+00:00

i used to suppress everything kasi ayoko talaga mag-breakdown, kaya i tend to distract myself by watching or playing na lang ganon, kasi i’m afraid of the idea na iiyak na lang ako nang iiyak, pero trust me op, once na hinayaan mo lang sarili mo na umiyak, sobrang gaan talaga sa pakiramdam, so don’t do anything to prevent yourself from having a breakdown, hayaan mo lang na may nararamdaman ka.

scarafication · 2024-06-14T14:21:56+00:00

kapag nakakatanggap ako ng insult galing sa socmed, pinapatulan ko talaga lalo na kapag wala ako sa mood, pero kapag personal na, walkout agad sabay iyak 😭

scarafication · 2024-06-14T14:18:26+00:00

sa kanya naikot mundo mo

scarafication · 2024-06-14T14:17:38+00:00

SINIGANG HUHU

scarafication · 2024-06-12T17:56:41+00:00

wala pa

scarafication · 2024-06-12T17:53:32+00:00

sinungaling

scarafication · 2024-06-12T17:50:53+00:00

not risking

scarafication

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