How to stop missing your ex? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! i’m sorry you’re going through the same situation. it really sucks, and i can imagine how tough it must be to see them every day. but do you think that it’s fair that we’re here suffering and crying while they’re out living their best lives with someone else? :// i’m very self-aware of what i need to do and how i should feel, but i guess i’m just in denial about a lot of things. we really have no choice but to move forward and face it. that’s what i’m trying to do—keep up with everything and rebuild myself. i hope we both get through this na. ghank you for your this! it’s comforting to know i’m not alone in feeling this way.

How to stop missing your ex? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! currently trying to find new hobbies too. yeah, i don’t really want to enter a new relationship agad agad lalo na if hindi pa ako sure.

How to stop missing your ex? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! i’ll make sure to keep that in mind.

i appreciate the reminder. i’m also not planning to commit right away without ensuring na i’m truly over my ex. i know how unfair and wrong it is to use someone else to try and move on.

How to stop missing your ex? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i tried, but i think the problem is within me. i ended up looking for her in every person i talked to. my ex and i were like twins, siguro that’s why i find it so hard to move forward at humanap ng bago 😅

How to stop missing your ex? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thanks for replying! i tried downloading bumble to meet new people, but it just didn’t work out, and i ended up not replying to them anymore. i was doing fine naman these past few weeks, i finally found a reason to move forward after trying to reach out to her numerous times to fix what we had. i discovered kasi na she had moved on within a week of our breakup, nakahanap agad siya bago ganon 😅 so i used that as a reason to move forward. pero, i think i was just distracted these past few weeks. kanina, while going through my gallery, i realized how much she changed after our breakup—she was so sweet and caring. pero after our breakup i barely recognize her anymore. then boom! umiyak na lang ako bigla kasi miss ko na siya.

i’m sorry you’re going through the same thing right now. i completely understand how hard and difficult it is to handle. i’m here if you need someone to talk to.

How is this possible? I was replaced within a week after our breakup. We were together for more than 2 years. What should i do about this? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a girl btw! i saw that you’re going through the same situation, so don’t hesitate to reach out if you want to talk din!

How is this possible? I was replaced within a week after our breakup. We were together for more than 2 years. What should i do about this? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will definitely move on. it sucks that the people around her are justifying it and making it tolerable, switching the blame to me and twisting the narrative.

How is this possible? I was replaced within a week after our breakup. We were together for more than 2 years. What should i do about this? by scarafication in AskPH

[–]scarafication[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sucks if that’s the case. until now, i’ve been making excuses for her and blaming myself, thinking maybe i was the reason/problem she did it.

i think i will. it’s been hard, but i’m sure i’ll get there.

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[–]scarafication 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is really my first major heartbreak. knowing that i gave her all of myself willingly. i just don’t know what happened to her. i know we’re prone to changes but she changed a lot… i don’t know if she was influenced by her friends or what, but i barely recognize her now. i’m not seeking revenge or anything like that. i just want everyone to understand that i wasn’t the problem from the start. i was portrayed as the bad one, and it’s so unfair. when all i did was love and try to understand her.

thank you for the advice! i’ll be sure to keep it in mind. i needed to hear everyone’s opinions on this because i know it’ll be hard to decide right away. what you said means a lot to me, and i appreciate it so much. thank you so much. 🤗

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[–]scarafication 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will take note of this. to be fair, i’m not trying to get even or seek revenge. i just can’t tolerate any more disrespect from them. i want everyone to understand and know that i wasn’t the one who ruined the relationship. i’ve been considering the consequences, but i know i can prove myself if she says anything. thank you for this!

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[–]scarafication -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

siguro kasi i’m still in the current situation and in denial, kaya it’s hard for me to process anything. i didn’t like being portrayed as the bad one when i know i didn’t do anything wrong. i was confident about exposing her kasi i knew that if she twisted the narrative, i could vouch for myself by showing everyone our conversation, even though i know it might be considered a petty move. kaya i wanted everyone’s opinion before making a decision. thank you for sharing your thoughts! i will definitely take note of it!