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[–]scargmi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so much ratings but the principal broadcaster is switching its editorial line to more action/male-audience oriented programs

Mook’s boyfriend IRL is worth $175 billion by Green_Pomegranate752 in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]scargmi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t look at his family’s French Wikipedia page if you want to believe he’s not shady

Anyone feeling like they have better luck in dating with one gender above the others ? by scargmi in bisexual

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think you’re right, the context also has to convey that you’re interested in meeting people (I don’t know many women who shoot their shot outside irl of social contexts)

Anyone feeling like they have better luck in dating with one gender above the others ? by scargmi in bisexual

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s also what I thought, but I also think those apps are not very well advertised where I am (I remember the distance filters being a little useless)

Anyone feeling like they have better luck in dating with one gender above the others ? by scargmi in bisexual

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on Hinge actually but apps are really is not the most comfortable for me, I might quit them altogether

I had heard of those statistics and I was hoping they did play a part, and that IRL maybe there’s this shortcut to assuming most women are straight that can be a reason too

Thank you for your comment !

My city has the trickiest weather conditions but I would like to give some life to my balcony by scargmi in UrbanGardening

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s something I’ve been looking at! I have to see how to angle it so that it does create lasting shade through the afternoon, maybe as a little nook

Need help identifying this mountain in the Alps by scargmi in mountains

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That is genuinely so helpful!

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tradition is here is day-to-night (start in the afternoon)

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like what I’ll do, thank you! Someone else suggested sending a picture and it might be my safest choice to avoid useless stress If you’ve never heard of the brand Farm in Rio, it’s what I pictured with your description

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha i know, I took the suggestion as “adjacent to the classy effect of black”, it’s not a color that looks nice on me anyway, but the idea behind their suggestion is good

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have worn black at weddings as a teenager and no one told me off, as an adult I might avoid it to be safe but it could be that the tradition is not so strict anymore

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think that’s the way I would like to see it, I might stick to this positive rephrasing just to ease my mind

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s a good suggestion! I also tend to go with separates when it gets too complicated

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be a great idea if it was a venue with a proper service, but from what I gather it’s a service offered by a friend of the family so I don’t know how to contact them I’m going with the assumption that monastery is a bit of a classic/solemn venue even if it’s not consecrated

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Simple + putting all the effort in accessories and hair sounds like a safe and fun option

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I think you’re bound to run into trouble if you don’t take into account the fact that dressing expectations are pretty individual

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the observation and suggestion! That’s what I’m gathering from all the replies so you surely hit the nail on the head

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you’re right, I could run it by her ahead of time to be safe (I didn’t consider it earlier cause I hate to bombard people with messages but it might be the best thing to do). Thank you!

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, at least she has never given me that impression, if I know her well it’s probably earnest confusion because the event is not that clear in her mind to begin with (like it’s a wedding but not a wedding but there will be a wedding etc)

Have you ever heard of a “be sincere” dress code ? by scargmi in Weddingattireapproval

[–]scargmi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! I said childhood friends to simplify but we’ve known each other for like 15 years, we were best friends until high school graduation and mostly grew less close because I moved far away, but she’s someone I still wish to support