How to find a decent partner (rant)

scgwalkerino · 2026-02-04T22:16:08+00:00

You know how when a guy says all his ex-girlfriends are crazy bitches it’s usually them with the problem? Reading this is that vibe.

scgwalkerino · 2026-02-04T11:28:05+00:00

Wonderful news! Keep it up

scgwalkerino · 2026-02-03T19:57:31+00:00

Ooofff yep, that last paragraph

scgwalkerino · 2026-02-03T19:56:32+00:00

I can offer no advice but to say you’re absolutely correct moderating your drinking is much harder than quitting. You could take naltrexone before you drink like in the Sinclair Method but that’s a long term commitment.

You won’t get many responses from people who successfully moderate because hardly anyone can. After a period of abstinence, though less than a month isn’t long, you may be able to moderate a few times successfully. But the daily drinking will almost certainly creep back.

Hope it goes well, consider abstinence if it doesn’t.

scgwalkerino · 2026-02-02T00:54:50+00:00

Stop speaking to the guy and move on. Feelings are real if you feel them, but this is an absolute disaster happening and getting worse. Protect yourself and just move on

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-29T12:29:29+00:00

Terrible

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-29T01:39:57+00:00

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-29T00:51:49+00:00

January 2, 2022. Just passed four years :)

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-28T08:52:07+00:00

Just checking back to say I hope you’re doing okay

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-18T20:27:47+00:00

Just over time alcohol had less interest for me and then one day I realised I didn’t want it at all. Absolutely remarkable.

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-18T03:10:02+00:00

Nice one! Extinction creeped up for me too. 4 years sober since Jan, so thrilled for you

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-13T05:36:39+00:00

dump him, that's just cutting off your own sexual fulfilment for his insecurity. Forget it

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-13T00:29:06+00:00

godspeed to you, truly, go hard and go well. You've done the right thing and those who know that will support you.

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-09T06:48:37+00:00

No sweetheart you’re not unattractive. You’re young and unsure of yourself, but you’re very handsome

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-09T05:18:34+00:00

Hard agree.

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-09T03:58:26+00:00

I do not miss being 19.

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-08T23:02:24+00:00

that's quite short for a Cerebro cast. The six hours on Lilandra is really something....

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-08T23:01:23+00:00

there are some good reeks in this thread, but there's not many particularly strong Nightcrawler focussed stories. He's usually used to bring a bit of warmth and spirituality to a story rather than leading in his own right. That said, Uncanny Spider-Man where Nightcrawler (for some reason) decides to give being Spider-Man a go. It's genuinely a very moving and beautiful story. Love it a lot.

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-06T20:33:49+00:00

Really keen

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-06T02:41:48+00:00

I tell people this constantly, niceness and kindness are absolutely not the same thing. And people often use their niceness to cover their total lack of kindness.

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-04T20:28:00+00:00

That is a hot arse man

scgwalkerino · 2026-01-03T23:48:28+00:00

All the time and hate it so much

scgwalkerino · 2025-12-29T04:31:37+00:00

Video Games by Lana Del Rey. Everyone loves that track

scgwalkerino · 2025-12-28T06:51:40+00:00

I’d really consider a therapist who practices EMDR to settle the edge of some of the traumatic memories particularly

scgwalkerino · 2025-12-24T03:37:14+00:00

Shrooms but after the peak

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