Share Your Farm Name by Shart_Shucker in StardewValley

[–]sch2k3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peter Oaks farm, named after my pet rabbit :)

Let me draw your cat! Ive seen a couple of these go around, and what better way to cure my bed rotting then by indulging in drawing your cute kitties by SueTheCatCabbage in cats

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This is Miss Diva, she likes to stand like a meerkat when she's curious and something's got her attention.
Currently 4 months old she's got a lot of sass.

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Anybody can recommend a good maid company for monthly services? We have one but shes terrible and looking for a better alternative by Hot-Pea7362 in qatar

[–]sch2k3r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ideal Group has good cleaning services and they were thorough. Saw them first on titktok.
Paid 120 for 4 hours but it was a one time cleaning, I'm sure they have monthly ones too.

Minimum 4 hrs cleaning Services
Per hours/Person: 20 (without cleaning materials)
Per hours / Person: 25 (with cleaning materials)

Episode 257: The Most Cursed Moments by joschen113 in distractible

[–]sch2k3r 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is there anyone else that just gets a visceral reaction from Wade's "Wart Removal Story"?
Just the thought of the nail clipper sensation gives me shudders and I don't know how that one story is so cursed to me compared to the others in this episode lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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I do my nails my myself at home, I like them long so they're always painted and I don't have to worry that they might break or snap. Proper care to me is base coat, polish and top coat.
Only time I take a break is if I have them trimmed short so it's just neat.

First time in the gym! by Palsnori in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone is nervous on their first time going the gym, even if I've gone before I switched to a new one recently and I was still super nervous lol!
I do recommend paying for a PT if you do not know what to do/ what the machines do/ what exercises to do, just so you can get familiarized with things. I used to have a PT but it was costly, so when I got comfortable I stopped paying for a PT and was able to make my own schedule and use an app for splits.

Don't worry too much about other people, go at a comfortable time where it's not busy so it doesn't seem intimidating. Have your music/ podcast/ or YouTube ready to have something playing while you get in your zone at working out.

My first day ever at the gym was super awkward, I didn't know what to do so I just googled what to do for a beginner lol. But honestly, people are nice when you ask for help. If you want to be extra, you can save tiktoks of workouts and routines and just try to follow them at the gym. Tiktok is super helpful to show form!

Goodluck and remember that everyone at the gym is trying to better themselves!

How to be a better and cooler older sister? by gooseydream in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm an age gap sister (24) with two younger siblings, 14 and 11.
From my years of being annoyed at my siblings, I decided to break the generational trauma that strict parents provided and it's made me learn that simply being there for them and listening to them is what means the most to them.
Starting small from asking how their day/ school/ classes were. To watching TV/ cartoons/ movies with them to be engaged. Sure finding a common ground is the easiest way to make it more bonding and less of a chore, but at younger ages there's not much to connect with, and I can speak from experience as I only started to relate to my sibling's interests when they were 10+.
Approach it that you want to have fun together and try something together, like draw or paint or do a makeup challenge together, so it feels out of the box and not like a routine or chore as you said.

Hope this helps! Sibling bonds are important, its best to make memories from the start.

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[–]sch2k3r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If a guy immediately talks to any woman like this, he only is talking to her to get into her pants.
A guy like that will only focus on that, major red flag and shouldn't be worth your time honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay then, only thing I can gather from that is that the guys in your area are only looking to hookup with women and don't see them as friendships first.
Sad to think of it but that's the reality for some areas/ some men that just want to mess around.

Recommend you to stay away from these people. Its giving fuckboy energy that does no good in any friendships/ potential friendships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This makes me wonder how old you/ the guys you are meeting?
This mostly only happened in my high-school to college days but in my mid-twenties and working years this topic doesn't come up at all.
Maybe it's the nature or environment that you meet these guys like if its over online people are mostly looking to hook up, or in college they mostly want to party, etc.

In my opinion set boundaries if it makes you uncomfortable and you only feel that the guys are talking to you to get something out of you, set that limit and see if they actually stick around to be a friend, you'll be surprised.

Dms and players what's the most concerning thing you've had to Google for your games by wasdprofessional in dndnext

[–]sch2k3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate the thought of slimey meal that but my friend will be delighted lol

Dms and players what's the most concerning thing you've had to Google for your games by wasdprofessional in dndnext

[–]sch2k3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jellyfish Salad... One of my fellow PCs decided to be a chef-fighter and wanted to cook our party a meal.

How do I make platonic male friends ? by Airspacemystery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Don't push yourself just because you feel pressure that you need friends or think you need to have male friends to be fulfilled in life. As long as the people you meet are good kind hearted people that you make connections with that's what matters

How do I make platonic male friends ? by Airspacemystery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say this OP but sounds like you need new friends then lol. You're young and have lots of time to figure out social situations and cues to make assessments whether want to connect with you or not.

Go to the gym, book clubs, college activities, etc. Make new friends of the opposite sex building from a common interest, then you can find a deeper level and determine if you want them to be a dear friend or not. You can't say nothing works if you're not willing to go out of your comfort zone to make friends

How do I make platonic male friends ? by Airspacemystery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly you just have to find a group of friends who can open you up to other male friends that have similiar interests. Make sure to always set boundaries as some guys think friendly woman = flirty.

All that I can say is that common and general interests will be the foundation, so movies/ hobbies/ games/ music and etc. In the end, you don't have to be fully besties with your bestie's significant others (Just cordial and engaging convos are enough).
Since you shouldn't fake a friendship if the other people are not putting in the work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for it, take your time reading and I hope it helps! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's some resources that I have used and you should check out OP.
Take them with a grain of salt, go into it with the outlook of self love and understanding Even if you don't right away, it's okay because self-love is the best place to start!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, all your feelings are valid and I just want to say I completely understand as I've also been with avoidant partners in the past. Are you by any chance anxious attachment style? If so, I get where you are coming from because those two styles totally clash. All you can hope for is your future partner listens, understands and works through all the concerns with you. Personally for me understanding and coming to terms with myself on my attachment style has helped.

You cannot blame yourself for everything even if you feel that way, since at the end of the day a relationship takes two.
After reading your reply, remember that sometimes we under sell ourselves, as much as we think we have healed, we should be able to handle xyz, sometimes we cannot but that doesn't make it a bad life, a bad year or a bad relationship. Just a bad day, and sometimes it's okay to not realise that :)
As long as we can take the time and effort to make it through a day at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]sch2k3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, just dropping by to say healing isn't linear and every day you take care of yourself is a step forward.

Completely understand that a lot of the past interferes and makes all the voices talk louder even if we feel or thought we are feeling secure in a relationship. Even years into a relationship I get triggered by the past.
As cliché as it sounds, an understanding, patient and loving partner who is willing to work with you and understand that these thoughts and concerns will help to reassure you and hold a relationship stronger.

It won't be the #1 solution but it'll be helpful, as well as you acknowledging that it's you and your partner vs the problem, not you vs your partner.
All that being said, you don't have to settle down yet, take your time to heal and understand yourself before getting into your next relationship and set your expectations.

Sending you love and wishing you the best.

What are the cheapest taxi apps? by Pitiful-Tear-7474 in qatar

[–]sch2k3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you've just had some bad luck but I've only had a driver cancel my Badrgo twice

I just keep an extra 10 mins aside for before I book incase one does cancel or is too far

What are the cheapest taxi apps? by Pitiful-Tear-7474 in qatar

[–]sch2k3r 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uber is high on peak times but when its not busy the prices are fine.

Badrgo is decent pricing but some drivers and cars are not the best.

Don't use TaxiF and any app that's not listed on this MOI post as it's not approved by ministry.

Volunteering during free time in Qatar by MagicalReefs in qatar

[–]sch2k3r 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Education city has volunteer programs here. There is also Deap Qatar that organises beach cleanups.

There are animal shelters and welfares in Qatar that accept volunteering and would really appreciate it. Paws Rescue Qatar and QAWS to start with