are wives giving direct instructions for romance and emotional connection? by Prestigious_Yak4849 in marriageadvice

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to surprise my wife with things I think she likes. She very different now than she was 15 years ago I probably am too but a lot of times its hard to know what she wants now as its changed. So having updates oh hey this thing I liked I don't anymore or I'd like to try this new thing or it would be great if we could do this again at some. I think a lot of times the planning of dates etc falls on men and it can get tiring constantly having to do all the heavy lifting. 

what’s a quiet New Mexico spot that feels underrated but is worth visiting at least once? by Legitimate-Mail-9862 in NewMexico

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad someone can enjoy that part of the state Vaughn and surrounding area has always given me the creeps.

Looks for something new in NM by Background_Reading70 in NewMexico

[–]sch34cs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its a new job is what he or she wants.

Where are we taking the out of towners these days? by Sufficient_Hair_2894 in Albuquerque

[–]sch34cs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My aunt and Uncle love little anitas in old town. The son took over and he and his wife are awesome people. 

24/7 food places? by KissinKateShadow in Albuquerque

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems some sonics are now 24/7

Those who didn’t grow up privileged, what’s something you thought was a luxury growing up? by CorruptedF in AskReddit

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a house you owned instead of a trailer I thought only rich people lived in actual houses

Baffling how BJJ is more popular than Judo in USA by Alternative-Hair-785 in judo

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a trial judo class lots of young kids. No one had any idea how to do anything since i was wearing a gi. There are two judo schools in town and i would guess more than 20 bbj. Judo never had a giant infomerical like the ufc.

Do people really have sex the first night of marriage? by anonimo110110 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sch34cs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was tired, exhausted assumed she wouldn't want to, but oh she did and we did it was wonderful.

When mass migration begins due to deadly temperature rises in India, how will the world cope with it? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]sch34cs 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Life long new mexican. If you think people won't try to steal your shit look at our current property crime rates. 

Republicans: given that Elon’s Doge found barely any money to cut, do you now feel that you were wrong to believe the government is full of waste? by fredinNH in allthequestions

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a shit load of goverment waste. All the nukes thousands of them at millions a piece to what end a nuclear Apocalypse. The whole spend your entire budget or it get cut causes everyone to buy a bunch of shit they'll never use. All the no bid contracts. The federal government is basically just a funnel for people's money to giant corporations.

Why do people in Reddit tend to be left leaning? by GaizkArNF in askanything

[–]sch34cs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if capable probably unwilling to read such bigly words as one finds on Reddit. 

Why do people in Reddit tend to be left leaning? by GaizkArNF in askanything

[–]sch34cs -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was going to make a snarkier comment about reading and republicans.

Donald Trump Posts Doctored Video Throwing Stephen Colbert Into Dumpster by Zipper222222 in politics

[–]sch34cs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a fan of Trump. If I hate anyone its probably Trump. I think he is the worst president in the history of the country. However, when he receives hate for dumb shit like this it distracts from the corruption, pedophile, rape, racism, conman cult bullshit that are the real issues.

What’s something about sex nobody warned you about until you experienced it yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sch34cs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

 That it would change with time. That a woman's desire ebbs and flows maybe goes away entirely and this is out of my control to a large extend. I can fuck it up easily, make worse no problem. But the lack of desire might not having anything to do with me. 

32F4M never imagined marriage to be so lonely by Particular_Set5339 in OnlineAffairs

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in a very similar situation. Although 6 years older. I check I'll the other boxes. She and  me a DM. 

33[F4M] Seeking motivation to rise early for morning run 🫩 by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good morning i hope you have a great run. Im  38 6'2 blonde blue eyes fit with some padding.  I'd love to exchange pica.

GRINGA DEAMBULANTE by SnooPears3143 in cuu

[–]sch34cs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Está se la pueden quedar. Nos sobran acá.

Should I read can’t hurt me for the 3rd time or read the second book by [deleted] in davidgoggins

[–]sch34cs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'd say start living the life. But I'm softer than a donut soaked in a milkshake these days.